what if someone invites you to their wedding

but you weren't planning on inviting them to yours?





- assuming they're acquaintances or maybe even long lost friends

what do you do?
-add them to the b list?
- invite them?
- go to their wedding?
- dont go to their wedding?

Do you want to go to their wedding? Do they know you're getting married soon?

If the answer is no to both of those, you can just cut ties and not invite them. But if you're interested in going to their wedding, you should probably invite them to yours.

We got a STD from someone and invited them to our wedding because of it. It's kinda cool they thought of you to invite you to their wedding -- you must mean something to them!

i don't think its necessary to invite someone to yours JUST BECAUSE they invited you to theirs.

esp just casual acquaintances.

i mean, more than likely if you go, you'll give a gift to cover the cost of you being there. so don't feel like you need to invite them to have you balanced out.

JMO though.

i am kinda in the reverse situation

i sent my friend from college a STD for my wedding so she knows shes being invited. She lives in DC so i dont see her as much but we still talk occasionally and even about wedding plans....shes getting married in july and didnt send me a STD but i know a bunch of other people who got them.

so now im pissed. Its fine if she didnt want to invite me or couldnt for whatever reason....but im upset she didnt say nething to me about it. I wouldve saved my time/money on sending her a std and invite bc im sure she won't be coming.

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

I'm in this predicament and I just plan to wait and see.

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ok good so let me know what u do since u're getting married before me

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Posted by latinaj

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

I'm in this predicament and I just plan to wait and see.

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ok good so let me know what u do since u're getting married before me

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I will!

I was invited to 2 coworkers weddings and I went. One girl is off the list, she has totally turned and become a miserable sack of shitt...the other one I am on the fence about, so I will wait till I get closer and invite her if I need to.

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Posted by MrsC2010

i am kinda in the reverse situation

i sent my friend from college a STD for my wedding so she knows shes being invited. She lives in DC so i dont see her as much but we still talk occasionally and even about wedding plans....shes getting married in july and didnt send me a STD but i know a bunch of other people who got them.

so now im pissed. Its fine if she didnt want to invite me or couldnt for whatever reason....but im upset she didnt say nething to me about it. I wouldve saved my time/money on sending her a std and invite bc im sure she won't be coming.

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I'm in the exact same situation as you! Wedding is in DC in July...I sent her a STD...she has sent out STDs to others except me. And I feel the same way...I don't care if I'm not invited, but I would've cut her off my guestlist if I knew lol