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What is a good gift?

Bimbalina Posted:

What is a good gift?

This might be a tacky question, but I was just wondering what amount would be good to give to my sister and FBIL for their wedding? I was thinking $1000, but some people say that is too much. Any ideas? Thanks.

PROBM Posted:

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if u can give (i mean afford) and you do not go broke then that amount is perfect! i think its great , fh and i ususlaly give 400-500 depending on couple and if we had siblings i would like to give them 1000

pa56 Posted:

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That's a very generous amount. My bro and sis-in-law gave us $500 but they also paid for my bridal shower.

JJC Posted:

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you give what you can afford...always....no matter who it is...thats what I say. I mean...if my bro didnt make a lot of $$$ and gave me $1000 I would feel guilty and want to give it back..and vice versa....If he made 7 figures and gave me $200 i'd kick his ***
Gracie821 Posted:

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I think whatever you can afford is a good gift. They are family so they should understand whatever you give.

twoifbysea Posted:

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Posted by PROBM

if u can give (i mean afford) and you do not go broke then that amount is perfect! i think its great , fh and i ususlaly give 400-500 depending on couple and if we had siblings i would like to give them 1000



Ditto.
Espo22 Posted:

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If thats what you can afford and what you want to give then go for it. Its your sister so if anything this is somebody you would definitely give more to than just about anybody else. I know if i had a brother or sister I would. Even for our wedding BIL gave a very generous amount, he gave $1500 and he kept saying 'sorry i couldnt give more' we were both like 'ARE YOU CRAZY' that was more than enough. So i understand as a sister that you want to be generous

angelatp Posted:

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If you can afford it, go right ahead.

GinaZ Posted:

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give what you can afford! If you both are new in your careers and that would be a huge dent for you, give less- they would probably feel really bad if they knew that your gift set you back a lot. If you are financially able to give that much- Im sure they would be grateful!

Future Mrs H Posted:

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I agree with everyone else- give what you can afford

SummerBride10 Posted:

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I agree- if you can afford it- then its a great gift- very generous. Don't break the bank though- go with what works for you.

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