what is FH doing for his bachelor party?

Original post by EsquireBride

Aug 20, 2008 11:58 AM

With all of these crazy posts the past few days about misbeahving FH's at bachelor parties, I was wondering --

do you know what FH plans on doing for his party?

Because our wedding is early in the year, FH already has his plans made -- flying to Las Vegas with some guy friends! I am not really worried, because I know everything that goes on (FH really can't ever keep a secret anyway) and FH and I set some ground rules so he feels like he still has freedom but I know nothing too nuts is going to happen.

Kelly1015 Posted: Aug 20, 2008 08:54 PM

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Posted by Jsquared279

We are doing a Jack & Jill party! We are really excited about doing this together with our entire BP! YAY! We don't know what we are gonna do yet but I guess we should start planning it lol!

we are also doing a jack & jill...the girls r going to go do girl things in the morning and the guys will probably go golfing, and then we are all getting a limo and heading to boston for the night (yea im from MA not NY)...but it will be a blast!!

LegoBride Posted: Aug 20, 2008 08:58 PM

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FH is going to the Bahamas the same weekend I'm going to Vegas

KellymKuehn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 09:15 PM

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My FH will probably go to a bar. Maybe a strip club he hasn't decided yet. He isn't really into that but who knows. I'm not worried.
All I know is I don't want a party together!
I think that defeats the purpose!

MrsZtoBe Posted: Aug 20, 2008 09:20 PM

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I have SUCH mixed feelings about this damn bachelor party.

I would love to do a Jack and Jill thing but I am pretty sure FH wouldn't go for it.

I have no brothers or anyone that would be going to his party. So I don't have that cushion.

I trust my FH completely. But it is still nerve wracking to think of his single guy friends all taking him out. I keep trying to figure out of any of them would be his 'conscience' if he needed it.

I think that getting married is a SCARY thing. Especially for guys. It is hard to imagine being in that frame of mind and going to hang out with strippers and not being tempted. I don't believe in putting yourself in that type of a situation...

Anytime I have mentioned something like this though, FH gets very annoyed with me. He brings it all back to trust.

I am not planning on making a big deal of it- it just isn't the most comforting thought for me either.

Brendanzgirl Posted: Aug 21, 2008 10:42 AM

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He is planning on going to a sports bar and then to a METS game!--I wanna go lol

and I'm going to NYC to a greek restraunt and to a Broadway play!

VickiR510 Posted: Aug 21, 2008 10:48 AM

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Funny after this & another post about Dads going. I though FH was doing a weekend in LBI but he cancelled it. He doesnt want to do a weekend away. So i guess they are just doing a night out in the city dinner drinks etc. As long as he has fun Im happy.

** If they do a strip club (somehow i dont think so - FH does not like them) then as long as its lapdance free etc free whatever! I cant control what happens but FH can so i know im not going to worry about it at all.

azailia Posted: Aug 22, 2008 10:23 PM

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My fh is having 2!!! I am so jealous...

1 he will be going to foxwoods with stepfather and brother in law only for the weekend.

the other will probably be ac for a poker tournament with the rest og the guys.

Both of his trips will be overnight.
I will either be doing a spa day or going to the 80s prom, or a broadway show...

but i want to stay over somewhere.. no one wants to leave thier kids!!!

sux

KARA16 Posted: Aug 22, 2008 10:28 PM

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Posted by flairforfashion

Yea, my spy is my Daddy! LOL. FH is not so thrilled about him going but oh well!

smart girl

shell1879 Posted: Aug 22, 2008 10:33 PM

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he was talking about going to vegas OMGGGGGGGGG what a fight that caused. i finally compromised with him and said if you go do it at least a month before incase you do something stupid THAT HE BETTER NOT DO if by chance something happens it can be resolved in plenty of time.

i still don't want him going but i'm so sick of fighting about it

shell1879 Posted: Aug 22, 2008 10:35 PM

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Posted by shell1879

he was talking about going to vegas OMGGGGGGGGG what a fight that caused. i finally compromised with him and said if you go do it at least a month before incase you do something stupid THAT HE BETTER NOT DO if by chance something happens it can be resolved in plenty of time.

i still don't want him going but i'm so sick of fighting about it

i ment to add my friend in callie is like 3 hours away so she will be my spy LOL she keeps asking me if i have the dates yet

Sweeteey51 Posted: Aug 22, 2008 11:14 PM

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Im not sure but my brother and cousins will be there so not too concerned. He's probably more concerned about mines..lol.

meli722 Posted: Aug 22, 2008 11:50 PM

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yep, there will def. be strippers at his, i already know. either going to the strip club, or theyll be hiring the strippers to come to them......i actually want him to get strippers because hes never been to a strip club (well that i know of lol) but ill be having male strippers at mine

allegracristina Posted: Aug 23, 2008 01:07 PM

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We're doing a Jack and Jill weekend in Vegas!!! It was what we both wanted. No worries for us, just lots of gamblin, drinkin, and fun!!!

Espo22 Posted: Aug 23, 2008 01:09 PM

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Posted by shell1879

he was talking about going to vegas OMGGGGGGGGG what a fight that caused. i finally compromised with him and said if you go do it at least a month before incase you do something stupid THAT HE BETTER NOT DO if by chance something happens it can be resolved in plenty of time.

i still don't want him going but i'm so sick of fighting about it

awwww you shouldn't think like that. Even if he is going away, doesn't mean someone will cheat or do something real bad. So dont let your mind go there, remember why you're marrying him. I am sure if you didn't trust him then you wouldn't marry him.

nessa09 Posted: Aug 23, 2008 01:57 PM

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FH is going to paint ball in the afternoon and a cigar bar at night

meliss Posted: Aug 23, 2008 02:38 PM

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FH brought up the idea of goin to rio de janiero, brazil for carnivale in february and i laughed in his face..... So he'll be off to vegas instead. I'll be headed to vegas the week after him tho

Dani777 Posted: Aug 24, 2008 11:15 AM

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First...it really strikes me as odd that someone will plan on marrying someone that they don't trust. I'm not trying to sound like a **tch or anything...but alot of my freinds that got married last year said that they don't trust their FH ...specially for their bachor party... how can you marry someone you dont' trust..?? Sorry...just needed to get that out. There was alot of drama about that last year for me...
None the less...FH thinks that he's gonna jump out of a plane for the morning, then they are takin a limo to the painball place..then going to some strip clubs... I dont liek whe plane jumping thing...so maybe they wont do it. LOL... There will be about 15 guys all together...>Wowie. HAHA

browneyes Posted: Aug 24, 2008 12:07 PM

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my Fh hasnt put ne thought into his party yet since we have over a year but i highly doubt its going to be nething crazy his best man is his uncle and neither of them are crazy party goers so im thinking that they will do a bar n food n maybe a strip club (this will be the only time hes allowed to goto one! haha) :)

MrsBtobe2009 Posted: Aug 24, 2008 12:54 PM

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We are doing a Jack and Jill too. I am excited. My whole bridal party is going to vegas. FH and I are staying in the same room, but during the day and night we are doin our own things. the girls will lay by the pool and go out at night, and the guys will probably gamble. I cant wait!!!

Anthonysgirl Posted: Aug 24, 2008 02:38 PM

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FH really wants to go to a Yankee game but we are getting married in November so his bachelor party would have to be in like September. Oh well...whatever he decides