What is her problem?
My Matron of honor is my Aunt. She lives in NJ. Recently, I was having a telephone convo with her and I just mentioned to her that I was reminding her of the Rhearsal and dinner to follow which is a week before my wedding. She starting getting an attitiude and complaining how most weddings have their rehearsal the night before.. I explained to her that being our wedding is the weekend of thanksgiving, the church did not offer us that Friday night. It's not my choice! She then proceeds to cop some more attitude saying how I don't NEED a rheasal DINNER! OK... well, I know I don't NEED one, but my Fiance's father has been nice enough to offer to throw one for us. That's really none of her concern. She tells me how I am being so inconsiderate in expecting out og town guests to travel one week prior the wedding for the rhearsal... UMM ok.. I don't think this was called for.. I then tell her that I don't understand why she us getting all heated and getting loud with me. She then changed the subject and was B**** about how she is going to have to pay for a hotel room the night before my wedding.. Now.. months ago she told me that her and my uncle were getting a hotel room, that was her decision. I never told her she HAD to do that. Now she is making it seem like I'm putting her out!? She tells me she is not going to come to the rhearsal that she knows how to walk down the aisle. I said ok, you know what, if you feel so inconveinced I am sure you will not be attending my bridal shower (by the way my mom is taking charge of this i.e., sending out the invites and booking a place) nor my bachlorette party.
Now first of all she is not an OUT OF TOWN GUEST. SHE is my aunt and my Matron of honor. She makes it seem like she just wants to be present at the wedding to walk down the aisle and not helping my mom with the shower or anything. The conversation ended with me telling her I was disapointed in her attitude and the way she is acting and that I done with this conversation and I said good bye.
This was Friday. She has not called to apologize and it's now Sunday. The way I see it at this point... I don't give a c*** if she declines being my MOH.. less aggravation for me. I will gladly choose someone else. If she does not decline then I guess I will see how things go. Mind you this is an Aunt who basically never gone out of her way for me, nor have I ever expected to... Everyone else agree's that for a couple of times during ONE year she could go out of her way for my wedding. She is acting selfish and for some reason I think she is jealous in a sick way b/c she keeps mentioning how when she had her wedding 13 years ago... she did not have this and she did not have that.. I mean what's the point in saying that unless there is some jealousy there. To me it's quite sick that an AUNT is jealous of your wedding day..UGHHH sorry I just really needed to get this off my mind.
What do you think here girls?
Now first of all she is not an OUT OF TOWN GUEST. SHE is my aunt and my Matron of honor. She makes it seem like she just wants to be present at the wedding to walk down the aisle and not helping my mom with the shower or anything. The conversation ended with me telling her I was disapointed in her attitude and the way she is acting and that I done with this conversation and I said good bye.
This was Friday. She has not called to apologize and it's now Sunday. The way I see it at this point... I don't give a c*** if she declines being my MOH.. less aggravation for me. I will gladly choose someone else. If she does not decline then I guess I will see how things go. Mind you this is an Aunt who basically never gone out of her way for me, nor have I ever expected to... Everyone else agree's that for a couple of times during ONE year she could go out of her way for my wedding. She is acting selfish and for some reason I think she is jealous in a sick way b/c she keeps mentioning how when she had her wedding 13 years ago... she did not have this and she did not have that.. I mean what's the point in saying that unless there is some jealousy there. To me it's quite sick that an AUNT is jealous of your wedding day..UGHHH sorry I just really needed to get this off my mind.
What do you think here girls?
