james and i talk on the phone every day at 4 until 4:20. then we chat on the phone every night for 3-4 hours. we both look forward to those conversations --they really have kept us close because of the physical distance b/w us. (ny- va)
another ritual... we wrote a silly song about our relationship and we are constantly adding lines to it. we email it back and forth with revisions. lol..
rsolano222
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We both start our work days with FH sending me a good morning email and then we email throughout the day while at work. My day never seems right unless I get his email first thing!
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well on weekdays we usually leave together in the mornings, he drops me off at the train...on days we dont sleep over eachothers house i call him early in the morning to wake him up bc hes the worst at waking up. I always call him when i take cigarette breaks.
Then after work he picks me up from the train station, usually take it to his house bc its alot quicker, most of the time we sleep at my house so we'll go to his house for a bit then drive to my house.
On weekends, we wake up in the morning, he goes and buys breakfast and then we get ready and go shopping usually lol or go out somewhere...The past few weeks its the same sat routine..wake up, go tanning, go home take showers get dressed, go out somewhere to eat lunch then go shopping and just hang out
Christys0925
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FH can't go to sleep unless his arm is wrapped around me, and now I can't either.
We have dinner together EVERY night no exceptions.
We have snuggle time everyday.
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hahaha.............M-F FH leaves for work before I have to go to school so each morning he kisses me on the forehead to let me know he's leaving without waking me up (cause i am not a morning person). One morning he didn't do it and I woke up in a panic!
Oh and I don't know if it's a ritual but we try to cook one meal together at least once a week!
MrsDrinkh20
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every night before we go t bed FH kisses me on the shoulder. He's the best
jteach711
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b/c I wake up much earlier than him for work I go to bed earlier than him so every single night he lays in bed with me for a few minutes, rubs my back, and then kisses me on the forehead, says goodnight honey, and shuts the light. I can;t go to sleep unless he tucks me in
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he wakes me up when i have to get up early....if i cook, he cleans, if he cooks, i clean, he kisses me gnite and gives the dog a kiss on the head too!! awwwwwwwwww i love my future hubby!!! lol
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Every monday is 'date night' after work we spend the whole evening together doing something. We either go out to eat, or work on a project, play a game. Every night we have dinner together. DH has an internet business so he spends a lot of evenings in the basement at the computer.
ETA: We go to bed at the same time every night... FEW exceptions.
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On the days that FH works afternoons & I have to get up to go to work or class early, he'll wake up when I get out of bed. He stays half asleep & half awake while I get ready & he doesn't go back to sleep until I give him his goodbye kiss. One morning, I thought he was asleep & I didn't want to wake him so I just left. When I came home about 90 mins later he was laying in bed staring at the ceiling. He couldn't fall back asleep because he didn't get his kiss!
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We say I LOVE YOU at the end of each phone call, we must have said I LOVE YOU to each other over a million times, lolol. We talk through out the day but our last conversation is around 10:30 before we go to sleep. We see each other almost every Fri, every Sat and Sun. I dont see FH during the week , Im lucky if I do. ohh and when I get out of his car we MUAHHH!!!!!!!!!
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Since we live together things things can get ritualized very fast.
FH works nights and I work days so either he'll come in when he gets home to wake me up with a kiss or i'll kiss him before I leave for work when he's not working.
We make sure to have dinner together every night even when he works, which is hard because I hate eating at 5:30.
He calls me around 10 during his evening break to say goodnight and tell me he loves me. I can't go to sleep until I hear his voice. I get really antsy when I don't.
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FH calls me every AM on his way in to work, unless he stays over the night before. We try our best to take our lunch break at the same time so we can talk on the phone. And he's always the last person I talk to at night.
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FH leaves early for work and every morning he kisses me good bye even when we're arguing!! Soo cute.
BrideToBe24
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after the alarm goes off we spend a few minutes snuggling and before he gets out of bed I get a kiss and he says 'good morning sunshine'
futuremrsfab
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we recently started a new one that i am loving.. we have decided that on tuesdays we do some sort of improvement- right now we are taking tennis lessons, then in a couple weeks we'll start spanish lessons and we have dance lessons, italian lessons, cooking classes and speech classes on our list to do... its nice to do something together.
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When I was little my grandfather used to come in and no matter who was there or what was going on, he would always walk over to my grandmother first and kiss her three times on the lips... When I told FH this, he decided to make it our tradition now.
Also, every night after dinner he says, 'lovely dinner, dear' even if I don't cook and we have take-out!
fallgirl
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We hold hands while falling asleep every night.
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WOW umm you ladies I need to give you credit... You all seem so affectionat and me, well I am not to say the least....
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wow everyone has such cute things. fh kisses me before going to work every morning, when he works mornings that is. we sleep with 3 dogs in our bed so no cuddling for us lol. we talk on all of his breaks, usually unless i'm out with friends.
I guess we don't really have any rituals it's sad. every sunday we used to watch family guy, and american dad. then robot chicken. we also both try to watch seinfeld once a day, and law & order svu. actually our only rituals involve tv shows. sad lol. i've had rituals in other relationships, maybe fh isn't a ritual guy haha.
