I love my guy sooo much, but at times he does drive me crazy as I do him.
One thing I would change about him is his sometimes cold demeanor.
He does not show any emotion whatsoever, his motto is 'never let them see you sweat' Nothing ever gets to him, it is frustrating at times.
Ronnie&Theresa
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I love MY BOY so much...
but to make him know....
$$$$ isn't everything!!!
and its not his fault that his parents are MORONS!
OctBride03
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I wouldn't change anything about him!!! I would like him to change jobs though... he's not happy there, poor guy
curly2003
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I could say nothing because I love him the way he is BUT I won't. If I could, I'd change his religious beliefs.
eroxgirl
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I'd have him be less sensitive to the stupid things people say...he always gets upset at other people's stupidity!! He will always carry on about silly things that other people think - I'm always telling him - what does it matter that Joe Schmo thinks - Joe Schmo is a moron!
KarenK122
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I love my FI just the way he is, but if I could do anything for him I'd make him not worry over finances so much : )
Suzanne
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I would change his CRAZY spending.. Frank is a SHOPAHOLIC!!! he loves to go to the mall and spend money!! sometimes he can go there for hours and wander around just spending and spending and spending...
jennbaby
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Absolutely nothing, to me he's perfect!
Thrilled
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He can be very narrow-minded and at times not very empathetic. He doesn't try to put himself in anyone else's shoes and maybe try to understand what others go through in certain situations (grief, bankruptcy, infidelity etc). He is more apt to make snap judgments than to sit back and try to understand why certain things happen and why people deal with them in the different ways that they do.
But on the flip side, he is the most generous, solid, good-hearted, good man I know. He is just straight up 'good people.' He will be a wonderful family man.
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I just wish he was neater. His side of the room has clothes strewn all over the place... you have drawers for that. Said im not doing his laundry till its cleaned, cuz i don't know whats clean or not. But thats all!
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I realized that the things that drive me crazy about him are the same things that make him unique But he does like to spend money probably though, I just wish sometimes our sense of humors were a little more alike. It can cause some confusion and hurt feelings. I am getting more used to it.
Sassy
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Nothing...................EXCEPT....... I wish he opened up more. But he is getting better, he opens up to me now instead of Nobody.
shamma
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I would change his procrastinating attitude, other than that he is good to go
LnP2003
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i would change his whole life feeling of - don't trust anyone.... i don't need anyone....
huh???? then why are you wanting me to marry you - lol?!!!!
Diane
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I would only change....if he would pick up after himself...other than that....HE IS PERFECT!!!!
aliasPook
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I wish he would be more romantic. His parents are divorced, so he doesn't really know how a girl likes to be treated. He has gotten so much better through the years, and hopefully children will soften him. It's not that he is not caring, but he just doesn't under stand the whole wine and dine concept. A romantic evening for us is pizza and a DVD... He's cute though, I will always find lunch money in my wallet, a warmed up car, or lime green Tic Tacs in my jacket pocket.
IrishTracy
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I wish he would stop smoking!!!! Also he needs more patience!!
wacky
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I wish he would obey more,
Nope I love his thick headed german ass just the way it is.............
ChristineC68
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I wish my DH would be a little more flexible. A lot of times, once something is said, it's in stone. Then we will argue if I think over what ever it is and we get into an argument or he gets an attitude.
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I love FH with all his little quirks and everything. The only thing I would change for him is his herniated discs in his back. He fell 2 stories 4 years ago and has pain ever since. I would love to make his pain go away.
