What is an appropriate amount to ask a bridesmaid to contribute to a bride's shower (assuming the bridesmaids are hosting)? Does the bridesmaid also provide a gift?
Meglbu
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What is the appropriate contribution
When I was moh in my best friends wedding, her mother and I both planned her shower. We included the other girls as much as they wanted to be included, but did not ask for a certain amount or expect anything more than they wanted to give. I also gave a gift.
Another time I was a bm in my cousins wedding, and her moh's (she had 2) planned her shower themselves and then decided on an amount that we all (bm's) had to contribute.
Belle21
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What is the appropriate contribution
If you're the bride you shouldn't have anything to do with this. If you are asking as another member of the bridal party that's orchestrating the shower, you should ask each girl if they are willing to contribute at all, and then what their budget is and take it from there.
