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What is the etiquette for Mother of the Bride/Groom Dress?

bellaandfella Posted:

What is the etiquette for Mother of the Bride/Groom Dress?

Are they supposed to match the colors of the wedding?

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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I dont think so, but my mom and FMIL want to wear blue so it will go with my purple theme. I think they just need to stay away from white. My friends MIL wore a white dress at my friends wedding
dazies1011 Posted:

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I don't know but, I am sure it could go either way. Whatever my mom is comfortable in she can wear as long as it is not ugly,lol!!
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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they are supposed to compliment your colors...and the brides mom should choose her color first... (so I am told...)

Jflod710 Posted:

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When my brother got married my mom wore teal and the MOB wore silver

bellaandfella Posted:

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Thanks Ladies!! I wasn't sure.
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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my mom is goin to wear a color thats says for the color wheel

i want Coral dresses so she said lavender is the color for the color wheel( i dunno lol shes all into that interior desgin crap!
bellaandfella Posted:

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Oh ok.. so they need to coordinate with the colors not necessarily match. That works!!

bluegreen08 Posted:

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My BM dresses are a blue taffeta (see my avatar) that looks different in different lighting, so MOB and FMIL are avoiding blue so they don't clash.

I always wanted my mom to wear a wine/plum/purple color (her fav color + wine/blue are my sorority colors) and she found a dress in that color she thinks she likes. FMIL hasnt looked yet but knows to avoid white/ivory and plans to avoid black as well.

Are MOB and FMIL supposed to make sure to wear different colors?
xBrunette Posted:

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if my FMIL was alive... i wouldn't want her and my mother wearing the same color.. i would have wanted each to have their own color....

AugustBridein09 Posted:

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I don't know where I got this from but I had heard that the MOB is suposed to wear some shade of pink and the MOG is supposed to wear some shade of blue?

Anyone else heard of this??????
bluegreen08 Posted:

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Posted by UKsunshine

I don't know where I got this from but I had heard that the MOB is suposed to wear some shade of pink and the MOG is supposed to wear some shade of blue?

Anyone else heard of this??????



never heard of it.
little34 Posted:

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I would say no...but I would want it to compliment the colors.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Posted by lmt245

they are supposed to compliment your colors...and the brides mom should choose her color first... (so I am told...)



My FBIL and his wife definitely didn't follow with this idea My FMIL wore a lovely taupe dress with matching jacket that had beading along the edges and it coordinated perfectly with the seafoam green BM dresses. MOB wore an absolutely hideous poodle pink suit thing with matching dyed pumps And my FBIL's wife kept saying how beautiful it was, blah blah blah!!!
FalNBill Posted:

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Actually I think the brides mom picks what color she would like to wear and then the grooms mom picks... (this is what fmil told me)

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