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What is the normal amount of time before the wedding that showers are usually thrown?

hbradio Posted:

What is the normal amount of time before the wedding that showers are usually thrown?

I am getting married at the end of April and my sister is planning my shower for January? Too early? Too late? Perfect time?

Rainmama Posted:

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I don't know what is 'normal' but mine will be just over a month before...

pbandtim Posted:

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I think about 8 weeks before the wedding is a good time.

Boop2704 Posted:

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Mine was three months before. I know people that have had them 6 months before and people that have had them two weeks before. I don't think there is any set time that they need to be.

butterfly20 Posted:

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i think two to three months is ideal.... not rushed before and not so early

janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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i was married in january and my mom through my shower in october

chichila15 Posted:

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I think it also depends on the living situation of the couple. You & FH live together, so if you have your shower in Jan, you can just take everything home & start using them.

charlotte227 Posted:

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I don't think there is a 'normal' time...we're getting married in August and we're doing all of our parties about 2 months apart from each other I wanted to get the guests into a wedding mode...We got engaged April of 2003 and we kept our guests waiting exactly 1 year before we let any news out of the bag. When we decided to, we wanted everything quick and smooth. By April of 2004 all of our plans were finalized. We have had no interference from any family or friends!!!

EParty - April 2004
Couple's Shower - June 2004
Bachelor/Bachelorette Party - Aug 2004
Wedding - August 2004

nov.bride Posted:

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Posted by pbandtim

I think about 8 weeks before the wedding is a good time.




I agree
eogara Posted:

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Posted by butterfly20

i think two to three months is ideal.... not rushed before and not so early



That's when we've usually had them in my family. I'm getting married in April too and I assume my shower will be the end of January, beginning to middle of February.
WinterBride2005 Posted:

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Since I am getting married in Feb., my mother wants to do it before the holidays. I will probably have it the beginning of Nov.

julz33 Posted:

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Mine is July 24... the wedding is Sept 24. So 2 months before for me!

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