What is your biggest wedding day fear?

Original post by Jenn04

Jun 12, 2008 02:44 AM

I have had nightmare after nightmare after nightmare but I think these are my top 3 fears:

1 - Walking down the aisle....so scared

2 - Bus company not showing up (this is important as they are transporting 80-100 guests to our wedding. Without these guests there wont be a wedding. The company is alittle strange too so I am urked.)

3 - hair and makeup wont be done on time...we are up at 5am and on a tight schedule.

TJ22908 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:01 AM

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I was so scared of walking down the aisle and everyone looking at me but on the day I didn't even notice anyone looking at me I was just looking at DH. Don't worry girls you wont be worrying about anything that day you will be so excited!!

zoe282 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:01 AM

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Posted by Future Mulligan

mine is being sick

getting a headache from all the drinking

thats about it....

i just want to feel 100% that day

I'm going with this one. I have a really bad stomach and it can act up at any time...plus i get headaches so I just want to feel great and not have issues. If my stomach starts to hurt i focus on that and make it worse!

CD516 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:03 AM

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Posted by zoe282

Posted by Future Mulligan

mine is being sick

getting a headache from all the drinking

thats about it....

i just want to feel 100% that day

I'm going with this one. I have a really bad stomach and it can act up at any time...plus i get headaches so I just want to feel great and not have issues. If my stomach starts to hurt i focus on that and make it worse!

Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but i have one of those stomachs that gets really bad when i'm nervous and it happened before i walked down the aisle! It was very uncomfortable to say the least and made me more nervous than i already was. My advice- take something to calm your stomach if you think it might be a problem.

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:04 AM

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sobbing through the whole ceremony! i tend to cry alot... i really dont want to cry cuz im so happy!

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:10 AM

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Getting sick or hurt

cherish83 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:13 AM

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I have two fears:

A) that i fall/trip walking down the aisle

B) That my cousins come and family fight breaks out.. I hope they show up even though I kicked them out of the BP, but the whole family hasnt seen eachother in months and everyone is hating everyone, so I'm afraid the first time they all see eachother (at the wedding) there will be a fight

Jenn04 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 10:34 AM

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Oh girls..this is a good venting session! I have had so many nightmares....that my flowers were plastic, that the priest didnt show up because he was out boating, that the hair stylists didnt come bc they had the wrong date, i forgot my shoes and had to wear black ones, and the list goes on and on! I guess it is just anticipation and anxiety that our day is totally perfect.

But I do agree about walking down the aisle....so scared about it. I am going to be shaking....and crying! I am a cryer! Big time...a sobber!

jaep129 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:06 PM

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I will make the most ugliest bride and the bus for our 80 guest wont show either!

FinallyEngaged Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:07 PM

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FLOWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

failurebydsign Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:09 PM

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my fear happend..

my hair fell out..and you could tell the difference between my real and fake hair cause all the curl fell out

and its noticable in my pics

but whatever..who really looks at them anyway

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:13 PM

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Well I have a few:

1) that FH won't be on time

2) that FH will be hungover or that his friends will get him really drunk at the wedding (happened to my sister, she was sooooo mad at her DH and the last thing I want to do is be mad at my DH at the wedding)

3) that we will have too many guests and will have to tell people they cannot come!!!! (FH's family invited more than the room holds, they are 99% sure they are not coming but what if??)

4) that one of FH's friends will cause a scene (but without access to the mic I don't worry about this too much)

5) that i will cry during the ceremony too much. I am a big cry baby

JulyBride728 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:22 PM

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1. me and FH's parents/grandparents health- we just want our parents after all the stress to be alive and well--

3 years ago my friend's father passed away on her wedding day. He collapsed on the dance floor and had a heart attack.
I guess after all the stress of helping his daughter plan the wedding his health finally took a toll on him...since then I learnt to not have my mom take on more than she can handle for the wedding--so that's my biggest fear.

MSeed Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:29 PM

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Definetely walking down the aisle. We had a pre-cana mass on Sunday and we had to walk down the aisle and then go up on the alter. I had a little panic attack.

KimberlyScott Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:31 PM

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My neck is going to break out (When I get nervous or anxious my neck breaks out in this blotchy rash)
and
it will rain (although I can't do anything about that)
and
no one will dance

Sorry, I have more then one

KimberlyScott Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:33 PM

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Posted by jaep129

I will make the most ugliest bride and the bus for our 80 guest wont show either!

Your crazy. Your going to look beautiful

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:34 PM

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Posted by MSeed

Definetely walking down the aisle. We had a pre-cana mass on Sunday and we had to walk down the aisle and then go up on the alter. I had a little panic attack.

i had preanan mass on sunday too!

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 12:35 PM

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Posted by jaep129

I will make the most ugliest bride and the bus for our 80 guest wont show either!

You are going to make a hot bride, u are georgeos!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 01:08 PM

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1. Not looking my best because of pimples, bug bites, blemishes, etc
2. I don't know why- but my hair and makeup not showing up
3. My dress getting stained or ripped during the reception

dannisayz Posted: Jun 12, 2008 01:10 PM

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Mine used to be much different, but since I've had a few conversations with the problem people, my fears have changed.

I think I'm mostly afraid that no one will show up or that I'll faint or that I'm going to look fat/ugly/etc (like I do most of the time).

FtrMrsV Posted: Jun 12, 2008 01:10 PM

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Hmmm with all my wedding nightmares...

1. That my DJ will suck and no one will dance

2. None of my vendors show up

3. That I throw up while walking down the aisle because of my nerves

4. That I will break out so much no makeup will cover it up