So, after seeing all these pics of will you be my bridesmaid cards, and those cute cookies that i really liked....i really wish that i dis something like that! all i did was just ask my girls, cuz i honestly didnt think of anything like a card or a gift, etc....would it be weird if i gave them a card, or did something now?? it's been like a month (maybe a little more) since i asked them. any ideas of something nice i can do?? i prob wont end up seeing some of them in person for a while since they live further away. i would have to send something to those ppl.
ZeppsGirl
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I think that you could send them something like how happy you are that they are going to be a part of your wedding.
YOu can send them a card or a small boquet of flowers.
Just saying that you are constantly thinking about the wedding and that they are a big part of your thoughts would be nice.
Snowflake08
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i wouldnt send one now to the girls you already asked and i dont think its a big deal that you didnt do anything like that - i think verbally is nice
ZeppsGirl
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what if you madea calendar with pics of them and all pics of times past...you can make it on costco for like $8 and then you can mark the calendar with the date.
Autumn08
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Usually you would give the girls a gift near the wedding. It's not mandatory to do it now so don't feel like you did something wrong. You could always buy/make a card thanking them ahead of time.
ShanonandSteve
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you dont have to do something...
it is just as nice when you ask someone. It is special either way.
if you really like the cards , I know they hae the 'thank you for being my bridesmaid' cards that are very similar... maybe you can give them that with a little note telling them how excited you are that they are going to be there with you.
bridezilla08
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I didn't make bridesmaids cards or anything special either. Most of them are family members and knew they were going to be in the bridal party. They're all just as excited about the wedding as I am. I'll probably do a luncheon or dinner after we do their dress fitting...if I can ever make up my mind on a dress or even a color
Ilovebriani
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thanks for your suggestions! all great ideas! i think i might just try to get those BM cards as their thank you cards when i give them their gifts before the wedding. the calander idea is soooo cute, but i dont have tons of pics (only of my sisters)....i am planning on doing a lunch or something when we get BM dresses so that will be nice too!
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Posted by Ilovebriani
thanks for your suggestions! all great ideas! i think i might just try to get those BM cards as their thank you cards when i give them their gifts before the wedding. the calander idea is soooo cute, but i dont have tons of pics (only of my sisters)....i am planning on doing a lunch or something when we get BM dresses so that will be nice too!
I love the lunch idea! So nice and more intimate and personal!
