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What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead

Mici n KC Posted:

What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead

What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead
By N. Bhatta - AOL Shopping

Everyone knows to not wear white as a guest at a wedding, but what about other nuptial no-nos? Use these helpful dos and don'ts as you navigate your wardrobe through this year's busy wedding season.

For a Garden Wedding
Tacky: Leave the heels at home (you'll leave holes in the grass) and the sunbonnets for the bees (you'll block the view of the bride).
Rule of thumb: Never wear a larger headpiece than the bride, so avoid wide-brimmed hats.
Toast-worthy: Stay cool and block out the sun with this Tasha Head Wrap paired with some Ed Hardy 'Crystal Dragon' Oversized Sunglasses. Flat shoes can still be cute, and these Linea Paolo 'Dina' Thong Sandals would be a perfect fit for comfort and style. Top the outfit off with this Botkier 'Lita' Pleated Soft Hobo which is perfect for a garden celebration.

For a Beach Wedding
Tacky: Trying to look sexier than the bride is a bad idea, so steer clear from super-short dresses and stiletto heels.
Rule of thumb: Never show more cleavage than the bride, so nix a too-tight halter dress and make sure you're not busting out of yours.
Toast-worthy: Look like a beautiful, bronzed goddess in this flowing Adrianna Papell Grecian Halter Gown with these golden Reef 'Costa Rica' Thongs. Keep the classy theme going with gorgeous beach-inspired Coral Linear Drop Earrings and this waterproof MICHAEL Michael Kors Tote.

For a Destination Wedding
Tacky: Taking the 'tropical' theme too far and making a mockery of the couple's moment is a very bad idea.
Rule of thumb: Wearing very bold designs at a wedding takes attention away from the bride, especially if you're slated to be in professional pictures. Avoid huge or colorful prints and graphics.
Toast-worthy: Draw inspiration from the crystal-clear sea and wear this ABS by Allen Schwartz Ombré Silk Dress paired with these gorgeous Stuart Weitzman 'Icepack' Sandals. Accessorize with this Cara Mod Flower Headband and these bangle bracelets to complete the look.

For a Black Tie Wedding
Tacky: Breaking out your outdated prom dress when there are plenty of new gowns that won't break the bank isn't the best way to attract attention at a wedding.
Rule of thumb: Lace only belongs on the bride's dress and garter, so leave it just on your lingerie.
Toast-worthy: Invest in a chic and classic style like this Mary L Couture Shirred Charmeuse Gown which will get you noticed in a good way. Paired with these kate spade 'loupe' sandals, this Steven by Steve Madden Clutch and any of these dazzling chandelier earrings, you'll look fabulous at evening events for years to come.

For a Church Wedding
Tacky: Ultra-conservative suits aren't any fun and are hard to dance in, and things that are shiny and sparkly are probably too much for a church wedding, so leave the lamé and the tweed at home.
Rule of thumb: A wedding guest should never outshine (or outsparkle) the bride. Sequins are never appropriate for any marriage ceremony, especially a church wedding.
Toast-worthy: A conservative but stylish dress like this eyelet dress is the perfect choice for a church wedding, especially when paired with classic accessories like this Tasha Soft Circle Headband, these Linea Paolo 'Brooklyn' Peep Toe Pumps and an adorable pair of Majorica Organic Pearl Clip-On Earrings.

For An Unconventional Wedding
Tacky: If you know the couple's wish is for you to dress in a snazzy style, it's rude to just show up in your regular wedding wear.
Rule of thumb: Do what the bride requests – it's her day. Rules are sometimes meant to be broken, especially by request!
Toast-worthy: Taking the theme (whatever it may be) to its limit, or just creating an outré outfit that you can wear again, like this Meghan 'Janine' Tunic Dress paired with these Steve Madden 'Tumbled' Platform Sandals.

Just for Men
Tacky: Guys don't look good in dated dress clothes, so if he hasn't been to an event in a year or two, spruce up his attire beforehand.
Rule of thumb: Men should always show respect for the occasion by wearing a tie, no matter how casual the ceremony may appear.
Toast-worthy: This Robert Graham 'Cafe' Long Sleeve Shirt blows away boring shirts, and when paired with this two a.m. Skinny Silk Tie and these Kenneth Cole Reaction 'Simple Comfort' Loafer he'll be the hottest guy trying to catch the garter. Even if he doesn't need new dress clothes, a new belt like this BOSS Black '9005' Leather Belt probably could give his look a lift for the event
Espo22 Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress

Mici n KC Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



Oh, did anyone where anything crazy? What ever happened to that thread?
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



lol she was trying to be a bride..i dont think anyone was wearing white at mine.
GinaZ Posted:

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Good artical! interesting!

Toucan311 Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead

Thats insane. I ALWAYS wear a bonnet to a garden wedding. Who the hell do they think they are?

GinaZ Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



I went to my cousins wedding in Chicago last summer and my sister and I counted like 5 people in all white. And they were mostly younger people in their 20's! We thought it was so rude- they should have known better!

i think a lot of brides dont care if someone wears white, but as a guest you should know better and assume it would upset them just to be on the safe side.
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Thats insane. I ALWAYS wear a bonnet to a garden wedding. Who the hell do they think they are?



I heart big hats
jennandrolo Posted:

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Posted by GinaZ


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



I went to my cousins wedding in Chicago last summer and my sister and I counted like 5 people in all white. And they were mostly younger people in their 20's! We thought it was so rude- they should have known better!

i think a lot of brides dont care if someone wears white, but as a guest you should know better and assume it would upset them just to be on the safe side.



not as bad as my cousins wedding last year. his MIL wore a white gown. in pics next to her daughter, they both looked like brides. it was so weeeird!
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by GinaZ


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



I went to my cousins wedding in Chicago last summer and my sister and I counted like 5 people in all white. And they were mostly younger people in their 20's! We thought it was so rude- they should have known better!

i think a lot of brides dont care if someone wears white, but as a guest you should know better and assume it would upset them just to be on the safe side.



not as bad as my cousins wedding last year. his MIL wore a white gown. in pics next to her daughter, they both looked like brides. it was so weeeird!



ant090608 Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by Mici n KC


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by GinaZ


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



I went to my cousins wedding in Chicago last summer and my sister and I counted like 5 people in all white. And they were mostly younger people in their 20's! We thought it was so rude- they should have known better!

i think a lot of brides dont care if someone wears white, but as a guest you should know better and assume it would upset them just to be on the safe side.



not as bad as my cousins wedding last year. his MIL wore a white gown. in pics next to her daughter, they both looked like brides. it was so weeeird!







that's freaky!
Espo22 Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by Mici n KC


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



Oh, did anyone where anything crazy? What ever happened to that thread?



i dont think anyone wore anything really crazy, if they did i didnt notice. I mean some women looked sexy but i thought they looked nice and nothing outrageous...but in pics i noticed a couple of ppl wearing white
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by ant090608


Posted by Mici n KC


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by GinaZ


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



I went to my cousins wedding in Chicago last summer and my sister and I counted like 5 people in all white. And they were mostly younger people in their 20's! We thought it was so rude- they should have known better!

i think a lot of brides dont care if someone wears white, but as a guest you should know better and assume it would upset them just to be on the safe side.



not as bad as my cousins wedding last year. his MIL wore a white gown. in pics next to her daughter, they both looked like brides. it was so weeeird!







that's freaky!



i had a pic in my album
its not as white as the brides, its kind of off white
Espo22 Posted:

Re: What Not to Wear to a Wedding and What to Wear Instead


Posted by GinaZ


Posted by Espo22

you know whats funny, at my wedding i didnt notice people wearing white but in my pics i noticed it lol...i guess i didnt pay much attention to it that day but the other day in the background i saw this girl with an all white long sparkly dress



I went to my cousins wedding in Chicago last summer and my sister and I counted like 5 people in all white. And they were mostly younger people in their 20's! We thought it was so rude- they should have known better!

i think a lot of brides dont care if someone wears white, but as a guest you should know better and assume it would upset them just to be on the safe side.



yeah i dont mind but then it makes you question their motives ya know. Some were older and probably didnt think about it or who knows...but seeing this young girl who was someones date makes me wonder lol, on top of it being white it was long ya know.
ZeppsGirl Posted:

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I went to a wedding to Maine a few years ago and it was my first out of state wedding. While dressed up in a pretty dress I arrived to people wearing jeans ... its so weird how people of different areas celebrate differently. I truly felt over dressed. It was my exboyfriends sisters wedding and he even told me that I should go change...but I loved the dress and didnt feel comfortable wearing jeans (the bridal party was like a normal LI/NY wedding).
I just remember feeling like 'if I marry Adam this is not happening at my wedding'
We broke up two months later, so relieved!
DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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This is so funny!
I am so glad everyone kept it cool and did nothing or wore nothing out of the ordinary... I saw my aunt wearing a white top but she had on black dress pants so that was okay by me- I don't mean to sound like a snob but I am glad nobody outshined me that day

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