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What should I do?

Dani777 Posted:

What should I do?

So...as some of you may remember..
I went to the church that I would like to have marry us.... FH is Catholic, I'm Baptist, so we thought that an Epostical Church would be perfect. We found the perfect one for us. One in which we want to go to each week, and bring our future children to. Well...

We met with the pastor about 2 or 3 weeks ago, and said that b/c our date was the day before Palm Sunday, and at the begining of Holy Week, that he would have to check with his Bishop and give us a call back.
Now, we still didn't hear from him, and it's making me rather nervous. Should I call him? Do I wait it out a bit longer?
FH thinks it's their way of saying 'no', ... and that makes me sad. Wouldn't they at least call????

What would you girls do? I don't have too much time left, and I'm getting soo nervous....

Lastly, I really don't want to get married at the RH... we both really want a church....
Im a Pepper Posted:

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Can't hurt to call! Good luck!

JennyAPH Posted:

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Def. call them... tell them you are waiting patiently but you kind of need an answer asap

evewedsjc Posted:

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you need to call...it could just be an oversight...

Dani777 Posted:

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I feel nervous dealing with the churches though...it's like, you can talk to your venders like normal human beings, but I feel when talking to the church, it's like you may sin or something. LOL.

Thanks ladies...I guess I can give him a call when I get out of here...
evewedsjc Posted:

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Posted by Dani777

I feel nervous dealing with the churches though...it's like, you can talk to your venders like normal human beings, but I feel when talking to the church, it's like you may sin or something. LOL.

Thanks ladies...I guess I can give him a call when I get out of here...



don't feel that way...they are not gonna yell at you...That would be a sin..lol
Dani777 Posted:

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Posted by evewedsjc


Posted by Dani777

I feel nervous dealing with the churches though...it's like, you can talk to your venders like normal human beings, but I feel when talking to the church, it's like you may sin or something. LOL.

Thanks ladies...I guess I can give him a call when I get out of here...



don't feel that way...they are not gonna yell at you...That would be a sin..lol



Well, I already feel quilty b/c I stopped going once my Mom said that it's my life and I make the choice! HAHA> I was 19!!! So, I feel like they see that I didn't go all this time...AUGH! And the Pastor for this church is super amazing!!!
shell1879 Posted:

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i would def give them a call
if your too nervouse to call have FH do it ...

LOL i make mine call and talk to people all the time whe i don't want to be bothered
Dani777 Posted:

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Posted by shell1879

i would def give them a call
if your too nervouse to call have FH do it ...

LOL i make mine call and talk to people all the time whe i don't want to be bothered



That could work, but I already had FH call just about every single vendor. HAHA. Even the florist! HAHAHA. That was a grand conversation! LOL. But, I will suck it up... I'll post the outcome tonight...
MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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I would call and double check.. people get sidetracked, he might have forgotten.

Nyangel625 Posted:

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I think you should call.

gina409 Posted:

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i would call...good luck

flairforfashion Posted:

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Def pick up the phone and call- it doesn't hurt.

Deeglasser Posted:

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call call call... if you get voicemail i would continue to call until i got a live person...

Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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I would call.

Reesy Posted:

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Call, you may be stressing for no reason....

BarbieGrl10 Posted:

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I would call them!!!!!!!

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