What should I do? BM related

Wintersbride Posted: Mar 12, 2006 03:44 PM

What should I do? BM related

I have given my BM only these requirements for shoes:
-has to be silver
-open toe
-comfortable

One of my BM does not like feet and she does not want to wear open toe. Should I just give in? I want everyone to be comfortable (and since I figured wearing open toe would also kind of eliminate the need for panty hose, it would be cooler for them), but I really wanted the open toe because I think it would look nicer. I am not thrilled about feet either.

sr081906 Posted: Mar 12, 2006 03:48 PM

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I would give in on the shoes. Some people are very uncomtable showing their feet.

MrsStefan Posted: Mar 12, 2006 04:06 PM

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I think this might be a lost battle. In the grand scheme of things, who is going to be looking at her feet???

july06bride Posted: Mar 12, 2006 04:12 PM

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I wanted open toe too, but my MOH asked to wear closed...It was not something I was going to push because It in the long run no one will be looing at their feet...if that is what makes her comfortable, than fine

Wintersbride Posted: Mar 12, 2006 04:17 PM

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Ok, you ladies are right. It really won't matter in the long run. Thanks!

ewickens Posted: Mar 12, 2006 07:26 PM

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I told my BM to get a shoe in silver, any heel they want, any style they want as long as it was silver. I want them to be able to wear the shoes again and be comfortable all day.

Secondly, the dress is long with a train so no one will really see the shoes anyway.

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Mar 12, 2006 08:07 PM

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I know my MOH and one Bm will want to wear closed toe shoes, and that doesn't bother me at all. So silver, I guess I can buy shoes.

ElegantBride Posted: Mar 12, 2006 09:05 PM

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I am just giving a color requirement, the rest is up to them.

I just remember being dressed in a bridal party and the bride said 'You must wear this shoe'. They were the most uncomfortable shoes ever. To this day I havent' worn them. They were good for a museum piece, but not to wear. I swore that I wouldn't do this to my bridesmaids.