What should I do? (long)

Ok here is the story:
I have seven BM and one of them has not spoke to me in a few weeks, we work together and she has been acting weird and not talking to hardly anyone. I don't know what to do because last time this happened she blew up on me and told me some really hurtful things, but we got over it. She cycles, I guess you could say. I was trying to decide if I even want her to be a part of my wedding because what if she gets like this right before my wedding?? So here is the problem I am going to talk to her and tell her we have grown apart and I no longer want her to be a part of the BP, blah blah blah....... So what do I do with the odd number of girls and guys??? I will have 6 girls and 7 guys, how do I make it look right when we do the recessional???? One guy will be by himself, is that weird?
Sorry so long!!

i'm sorry to hear about ur friend. are u sure u want her out? you will probably lose her friendship for good if u kick her out.
but if thats definitely what u want to do just double up one guy with 2 girls. i'm doing this but X 2. i have 2 moh's and i best man and 5 bms and 4 gms. don't worry it will work out.

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Posted by diva7531

2 GM will walk one girl down the aisle

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That's what I was going to suggest

I don't think having an odd number is a weird thing--mine is going to be odd numbers. It's more important that you have the people you want there that day than that your numbers come out even.

That said, think about whether you want to do this. Obviously you were good friends, because you asked her to be your BM. And she agreed, knowing that it would cost her money and time and trouble. If you kick her out, I guarantee you're going to lose her friendship. It's one thing if a BM wants out because she can't afford it or doesn't have the time, it's another to kick one out. And you work with her, and that's an issue. Working with an enemy really *****. It gets in the way of your work, it's a big stress and a drain on your time and emotions. Believe me, I know, I had an enemy a while ago and it was awful. He got fired, though. Heh heh heh. (Jerk, loser, wasn't doing his work and looked at p0rn at his desk!). Why don't you try talking to her? Be very honest. Say that you're very stressed out with the wedding planning, and that she's been acting weird. What's going on? Maybe you'll make it up! It's worth trying, right?

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Posted by diva7531

I have 5 BM's and 6 GM 2 GM will walk one girl down the aisle

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We are doing this as well