What should I do?? Vent

I know some of you know that I have some issues with my sister. She has cut me out of her life. I am pretty sure she will not be my MOH. My other MOH and BM's are really making me sad. For my birthday I got texts and facebook messages-- NO CALLS!! I know I am going through a hard time the last couple of months but I feel like they have deserted me. I have called them all and no return calls. Should I just stop calling??? I feel like the people who I thought would be there most for me haven't been. I go out of my way to be there for everyone and I feel like no one is there for me. I don't think they are going to have a shower or a bachelorette party for me. I know they haven't planned anything yet.

Thanks for listening girls.

Not that this is any substitute for the real thing, but so many people, friends and family get caught up in everyday life and technology helps them reach out. It is so much better than not being contacted, but I understand your view.
I would email your BMs every once and a while and let them know what's going on with the wedding planning or ask to get together for brunch to catch up. I wouldn't give up just yet. This time of year is very popular for vacations.

im sorry you are feeling sad.

if it helps at all, sometimes i go thru periods where i just dont feel like talking on the phone

but sorry if its upsetting you. i will keep this in mind next time i dont 'feel like talking'

thanks for reminding me!!

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Posted by FallBride2010

I can see why you are hurt. Email and text is the lazy way out -- but I think everyone is guilty of it at some point or another. Try to forget about it and give them some time to return the call. Sorry you are feeling down.

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I agree - I am definitely guiltyof this from time to time. When its someones bday

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Posted by little j

im sorry you are feeling sad.

if it helps at all, sometimes i go thru periods where i just dont feel like talking on the phone

but sorry if its upsetting you. i will keep this in mind next time i dont 'feel like talking'

thanks for reminding me!!

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I am the same way... I get so bad with the phone sometimes - so when people text me to say happy birthday, I know not to get mad b/c I am like that sometimes too.

Sorry you're upset