WHAT THE EFFF

JAAMS Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:36 AM

WHAT THE EFFF

I just found out that one of my BMs is talking smack about my back to another BM about how:

I'm not inviting people w/ guests (unless they are dating..even if they just start dating they will be invited!)

how I registered too early (2 months ago)

how I'm going to buy my dress to early (by January)

and how I'm doing the hote block too early (this weekend)

WHAT IS WITH PEOPLE.

MikesBride2B Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:37 AM

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Some of your friends really need a big slap in the face....I'm so sorry that they are being jerks!!!

GR2010 Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:37 AM

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Eff 'em. It's your wedding, do what you want. You can tell her I registered a year and a half before my wedding and she can talk about me all she wants

latinaj Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:37 AM

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ugh i hate the world today

how about my bm said i have to pick a dress that looks good on her bc i know her longest

ummm i know you longest but ure a bm, not moh, not my sister, not my mother

hate u

sorry had to vent too

but we love you!

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:38 AM

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people LOVE to talk behind peoples backs...

everyone has something to say... if you let it bother you, you will never move on... let them talk, it doesnt really matter... your wedding is going to be awesome...

MarjorieFrank Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:38 AM

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Oh Em Gee......
The only reason these random people are saying this sh!t is because they are jealous. Why else would they feel the need to interfere with your wedding plans???
Sorry, but I am in no mood... Some people are so mean and pathetic.

FutureLW Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:38 AM

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WTFFFFFFFF!!!!!

If it makes you feel better, I'm not inviting people w/ guests unless they are in the wedding party or have a serious bf/gf. Sorry, I dont want strangers at my wedding!

MrsC2010 Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:38 AM

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ugh how rude. you should really say something to her

BriansWifey Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:39 AM

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why does she even care if ure doing all this stuff early on?? i did those things that u mentioned early too and theres nothing wrong with that.
better to get those things done and then focus on other things. maybe she doesnt know what exactly goes into makin a wedding work. there are a lot of details and its better to get them done and over with.
what the eff is her problem?!?!?!

JAAMS Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:41 AM

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Posted by BriansWifey

why does she even care if ure doing all this stuff early on?? i did those things that u mentioned early too and theres nothing wrong with that.
better to get those things done and then focus on other things. maybe she doesnt know what exactly goes into makin a wedding work. there are a lot of details and its better to get them done and over with.
what the eff is her problem?!?!?!

she interned at a bridal magazine, so she thinks she knows everything about it.

flibbertigibbet Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:42 AM

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i dont understand why people would sign on to be a bridesmaid if she would talk **** about you.

like, i have 'friends' who annoy me sometimes.

- i would politely decline if i were asked.

i mean, being a BM could be fun but is a LOT of work for some girls to do if they don't like 100% love you as their friend.

PUNCH HER OUT!

JayBee216 Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:43 AM

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Not sure of the exact situation, but it sounds to me like JEALOUSY!

And maybe resentment b/c she's single and might not get invited w/ a guest b/c she's not dating anyone??

Just so you know, I registered right around when you did, I did my hotel block 1 year in advance, and I'm also planning on ordering my dress in Jan! So there!

2010BTB Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:44 AM

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I'm sure when it comes to be her wedding day she'll finally understand. Let her talk and try not to let it bother you.

StaceyWill Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:47 AM

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Ugh!!!!! Some people just always have something to say!!!!

jcreilly Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:49 AM

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WHAT!!!! first its never to early to buy your dress i found fine 3 and half weeks after getting engaged and that was in July 2008!!!

M_Berk-Glenn Posted: Nov 19, 2009 10:54 AM

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Shes JEALOUS!
If shes so bothered by what your doing why is she in your BP? She can step down...but she wont bcuz she wishes she was in your shoes...weddings will show you who your true friends are!

scatteredx12 Posted: Nov 19, 2009 01:05 PM

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jealousy makes people talk... don't let them get to you... someone will always find SOMETHING to talk about. until THEY get married, they will not understand...