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What the ratio between your side and FH's side in your bridal party.

Original post by dancinmyazoff

Our total number of people in our bridal party is 14 (incl. 1 RB, 1 FG, 1 Jr. BM and 1 Jr. GM) now for the ratio 5:9

FH's friends in BP = 2
My friends in BP = 2
FH's family in BP = 3
My family in BP = 7

I kind of feel bad that I have a lot more of my family in it than his but he said he doesn't care at all because he's having who he wants. But I just don't want anyone from his side to think that I'm being overbearing but in reality that's not the case? Can anyone make me feel a little better and just list your ratio like I did. TIA
SugaBeans Posted:

Re: What the ratio between your side and FH's side in your bridal party.

Fh family: 1
FH friends:4
My family: 2
My friends: 3
madseason Posted:

Re: What the ratio between your side and FH's side in your bridal party.

FH family: 1
My Family: 3
FH friends:4
My friends:5


Our BP is 6 on each side, 1 FG (my niece) and 2 RB (my neighbors)

FH has one bro, I have a sis and bro.
maybride75 Posted:

Re: What the ratio between your side and FH's side in your bridal party.

we have 15 all together
groom side- 7 guys
bride side 8 girls the two youngest ones are my nieces the jr. BM and the youngest one my nephew is the jr usher so he will just walk down the isle with his 2 sisters thew jr. BM
Munchkn16 Posted:

Re: What the ratio between your side and FH's side in your bridal party.

There's more people from my side in our BP.

FH only has one sister. I have a sister, two brothers, and my sister's boyfriend (who's proposing to my sister ten seconds after my wedding is over).

So here's our BP

MOH (my sister)
4 BM's (FH's sister, FH's cousin, two of my college friends)

2 Best Men (FH's two friends from high school)
3 GM (My brothers and FBIL)

1RB (FH's cousin's son)

I don't feel bad, though maybeI should... BUT I can't eliminate anyone w/o major family drama.

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