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What time should I put on my invites???

quietgirlkate Posted:

What time should I put on my invites???

I am going to print my inviations today and I am still very undecided as to what time I should put on them. The ceremony starts at 6:30pm and it is at the reception hall, so as soon as the ceremony is over the reception will start. Being that it is on a Friday night, I am afraid people will be later than usual because of traffic and such. I talked to the RH last week and asked when they will let people in, and they said exactly 6:30pm. They said they will have to wait in the lobby if they get there early. So what should I do, keep the time as 6:30 or make it 6:15, just in case. I am sooo confused!!
michesq Posted:

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i would go with 6:15

DomesticDeeva Posted:

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I would go with 6:15.

My ceremony starts at 2:30, but I am putting 2pm, because our families are usually late lol.
sophisticat13 Posted:

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I agree with the previous brides. 6:15
2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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I am in the same boat but I am doing 6. Traffic is going to be horrible so I put earlier.

lilmartha59 Posted:

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yea im putting 6 and it isnt starting till 630 its also a friday

JodyLC Posted:

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Our ceremony stars at 3:30 PM I am putting 3 PM on the invites so we are not waiting around for guests to arrive

Almostawife Posted:

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Put 6 and ask your RH to serve champagne while the guests arrive.

I think I have been to very different weddings then a lot of people on here. Only once I went to a wedding that said 5:30 on the invite and the ceremony started AT 5:30. I have always been at weddings that call for 1/2 hour before ceremony and serve champagne until most the guest arrive and then move you into the chapel area.
BeLissa Posted:

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I totally agree with all of you girls - mine is at 5:30 and I want to put 5 on the invite - But, in our contract it clearly states that our invitations must have the same time that is in the contract for the ceremony to start - has anyone heard of this?? I mean, how will they know if i make it half an hour earlier? People will end up getting there late anyways, thats the whole point of the buffer.....

Kris2782 Posted:

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def out 6:15

I'm in the same boat..... Friday nite reception starting at 7:30 but I am going to put 7:15 so they allow time for traffic and what not
kewlpuff Posted:

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my reception hall told me to put down 1/2 hour before my ceremony started!
SoonToBeMrs.L Posted:

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I think I would put 6 or 6:15, just to be on the safe side. HTH

Soon2BMrsC09 Posted:

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i would put 6:15pm - that gives people enough time to park and get in for the beginning and if they are early, there will be other people there early to begin chit chatting with - no worries
our ceremony is starting at 12:30-i am going to put 12 bc i know there will be stragglers
diva7531 Posted:

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If your ceremony is scheduled to start at 6:30, there is usually 15-30 minutes of seating, they cannot reasonably expect to seat all of those people in 1 minute!!!

I would put 15 minutes max. This way if the late people get there on time, that's great, but for the 75-90% of people that do show up on time, don't think you rude for making them wait 30-45 minutes.
melonhead Posted:

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Posted by lilmartha59

yea im putting 6 and it isnt starting till 630 its also a friday



ditto.
Friday rush hour $ucks.
Munchkn16 Posted:

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We made it a half hour earlier. My family is notoriously late for everything!

KickinDandelions Posted:

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our started at 4:30, we put 4:00 on the invited..and certain very important family members were STILL late
DCW 2008 Posted:

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I would go with 6:15

RadiantBride Posted:

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I would put 6:15

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