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What to do about people @ Work ?

kellwolfe Posted:

What to do about people @ Work ?

There is one girl at work that I'm friends with we go to lunch together almost everyday and we hang out - out side of work ..Of course I want to invite her - Another girl just got married a month ago and she invited the whole office -(only 13 people)Which I don't want to do but I feel that I should invite her - and I also wanted to invite my boss cause I love her -is that rude ....what would you guys do

kissy27 Posted:

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I am only inviting the people I am close to at work! You can't invite everyone...If someone says something, tell them 'the cost is high & I can't afford to invite everyone' I am using the rule of thumb, if i talk to you on a daily basis, you will be invited

beautyq115 Posted:

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Good question...well hopefully I am not here next year...I might want to invite 1 or 2 people. BUT I don't really socialize with anyone outside of work!

kellwolfe Posted:

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I hear ya ...thats what I was thinking but its such a small office ya know -But then I was thinking last June the Pres. of the company got married and she invited who she wanted so why cant I and if people don't understand Oh Well

sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by kissy27

I am only inviting the people I am close to at work! You can't invite everyone...If someone says something, tell them 'the cost is high & I can't afford to invite everyone' I am using the rule of thumb, if i talk to you on a daily basis, you will be invited



i agree with this, but you are not obligated to give those not invited a reason. if they are all assuming you are inviting them, then its not on you to explain why you are not. i say invite those you are close with and leave it at that.
Angel2006 Posted:

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Posted by kissy27

I am only inviting the people I am close to at work! You can't invite everyone...If someone says something, tell them 'the cost is high & I can't afford to invite everyone' I am using the rule of thumb, if i talk to you on a daily basis, you will be invited



That is exactly what I am doing and I am also keeping the marriage on the QT to avoid future problems regarding this.
cantwait2bewed Posted:

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I am not inviting everyone at work. Work is work and i keep that separate from my personal life. I dont want everyone all up in my business. So i am only going to invite my boss and one other girl. Maybe. We will see.

kellwolfe Posted:

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cool ...that make me feel better cause thats what I wanted to do but we all know how people get

sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by kellwolfe

cool ...that make me feel better cause thats what I wanted to do but we all know how people get



yes, we all have one of those co-workers. but do whats best for you and who you want there. its your day, not theirs!!
hmpena Posted:

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We work together and are unfortunately inviting everyone in the office- anout 25 people and husbands/wives. I am hoping that not everyone comes!!
ChrissynRicky Posted:

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Only invite her and your boss...don't worry about anyone else.

cindyandkevin Posted:

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My FH and I work together so this is a tricky one for us, too. We can't possibly invite the whole comany! Just remember, in the end it's YOUR day. Do what the 2 of you feel most comfortable with, it's the only way to really be happy with your decision. Paying for everyone can get really expensive so we're just sticking to those we're close with, don't worry about the rest, life goes on.

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