what to do?-long lol

im @ work & bored so im typing up a tentative 'Friends List'

My best friend who's a guy and lives in Miami had a girl of 6 yrs. she and him broke up and of course he meets someone and gets married and has a baby and the little boy is 1 of my ring boys....

SO the problemo! the EX comes to NY 2 summers ago 4th of July weekend parties with friends and bumps into FH's friend -she neverrrr goes back to Miami and now they are living together happily...(what a small world to meet one of our people lol)

anyway, the ex and the new wife brawled...and got beef.
FH wants to invite his boy- but we don't know if we should bc of my Best friends situation...and where it gets stickier is that FH's boy's Best friend is our Dear friend too which if we invite my Miami friends would never know who he is lol ...but how can we invite one and not the other. OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MY im tired of this BS.
so sorry it's so long but do you get me?

does mean the best thing to do is not invite either of them? and of course just my miami friends bc of the ring boy? lol

opinions please!

Can you give them all fake names? I'm soooo confused

k lol basically


the ex 'maria' and 'gloria' don't like each other.

but Maria is dating Joey FH's friend ...and Joey's friend Antonio is our friend too

but if we invite Antonio - Joey will be upset we didn't invite him bc of Maria and Gloria's beef.

lol so do i not invite Joey and Antonio and say Eff it?

or invite Antonio anyway since we still chat and Joey became distant with us bc of the Miami couple and my close friendship with them ...
and not care hoping it's just to avoid problems?