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what to do with ironic/funny song -- She's No Lady by Lyle Lovett

samnjenna Posted:

what to do with ironic/funny song -- She's No Lady by Lyle Lovett

My FH and I are HUGE Lyle Lovett fans and we really wants to use the song 'She's No Lady' at some point in the reception.

Its a great smokey slow song with ironic lyrics (for a wedding -- sort of a guy bashing his wife), but we think its funny. I'm just afraid that if we use it for some important dance -- or the cake-cutting -- the first few lines will have people scratching their heads -- or worse, offended . . .

I'll attach the lyrics below for those of you who don't know it, but in general -- do you think a funny/ironic song should just be blended in with the reception (so only no one will pay attention to the lyrics) or should we highlight it?


Here are the lyrics. . .

She hates my mama
She hates my daddy too
She loves to tell me
She hates the things I do
She loves to lie beside me
Almost every night
She's no lady she's my wife

The preacher asked her
And she said I do
The preacher asked me
And she said yes he does too
And the preacher said
I pronounce you 99 to life
Son she's no lady she's your wife

And I can't remember
How I met her
Seems like she's always just been hanging here off my right arm
And I can't remember
How I ever
Thought that I just couldn't live without a woman's charm

And even though
She loves the smell of French perfume
And even though
She walks around in high-heel shoes
All I know
Is I'm the one who pays her price
Man she's no lady she's my wife

And I can't remember
How I met her
Seems like she's always just been hanging here off my right arm
And I can't remember
How I ever
Thought that I just couldn't live without a woman's charm

Yea she hates my mama
She hates my daddy too
She loves to tell me
She hates the things I do
She loves to lie beside me
Almost every night
She's no lady she's my wife
tjs Posted:

Re: what to do with ironic/funny song -- She's No Lady by Lyle Lovett

cake cutting? cocktail hour? funny song love the first line
isuser Posted:

Re: what to do with ironic/funny song -- She's No Lady by Lyle Lovett

i wouldn't use it as any imporant song just in case someone gets offended (for example, your FH's mama.. ) but playing it sometime during the reception should be fine!!
samnjenna Posted:

Re: what to do with ironic/funny song -- She's No Lady by Lyle Lovett

Thanks -- I am SO afraid that FMIL will be offended, but maybe I'll just let her know ahead of time that it just a little joke between me and FH.

wc0143 Posted:

Re: what to do with ironic/funny song -- She's No Lady by Lyle Lovett

I think your best bet if you want to use it for something (cake cutting, garter), have the DJ not use the first verse ... whether you warn FMIL or not, other guests may be offended on her behalf.

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