Do you have the long or short fuse in the relationship?
My Fh and I both have tempers, but it defiantly takes a lot to get me going. I have learned to not blow up right away and listen before acting. My FH on the other hand snaps at the drop of a dime.
chrissyandvin
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I can go either way depending on the situation. it usually takes a lot before I burst... but when I burst its can be bad! LOL he is very Italian so short fuse with him!!!!!
vmystique33
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I used to be so patient but not anymore im short fused which is bad and i need to work on. h is tempermental also can anyone say road rage I hate being in the car w/him
NY031978
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depending on what sets us off....we both can flip yet we both have pateince and we hold it all in...but when we go off....we go off!!
lilqtpie2181
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I have to give credit where credit is due. Unless he is having a horrible day and I just push the wrong button, Angelo is so patients with me. I used to be the kind of person who just blew up at everything but in time ( a long learning process) i have become a lot more patient. I guess overall im the one who gets snappy 1st though. Angelo will get mad at others in a heartbeat but with me he is different.
melbalalala
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My FH has NO fuse. He never really gets mad or upset, its weird.
I have a long fuse... takes me awhile to get angry about something but once Im angry takes a longggg time for me to get over it.
dplehat
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It takes a lot to piss me off but when it happens watch out. I am a force to be reckoned with . Fh on the other hand is odd. He can be perfectly calm about most things but he has terrible road rage. Oh and he is rather protective of me. He gets angry if anyone messes with me.
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I'm the short fuse with Darren, but we don't really ever fight. He's as calm as a cucumber if we do. And for the sake of our children, we don't get to that point to make me THAT frustrated. Talking helps ALOT!!
tonimike
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im the one with the temper, well not temper, but u have to really push me & if its not nailed down well watch your head..
Mike on the other hand gets pissed off at the world , but with me he is a teddy bear
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Posted by chrissyandvin
I can go either way depending on the situation. it usually takes a lot before I burst... but when I burst its can be bad! LOL he is very Italian so short fuse with him!!!!!
I couldn't say it any better!!!!!
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i have a short fuse when it comes to us arguing, and he usually has his ways when he gets mad, i usually the first to get fired up and he knows this, and he usually doesnt blow up , he is totally calm......
eelharas4700
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sometimes i can get mad at the dumbest things....but i get quiet. and then he tries to make me laugh....fh doesn't really get mad. he gets cranky...lol....it takes him a lot to get mad.
Bailey07
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I normally have the short fuse but he does too, with us it depends on the situation.
shelby34
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I am the one with the temper....had it since I was a little kid (my poor mom would vouch for that! hahaha). Luckily, FH is so patient and calm. He only yells once in a blue moon and then I know that I need to calm down if he got mad! That is why our relationship works I think....
Nina
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I have a short fuse. And peter....he is the calm one.
But we have really worked on this. I have learned to pick my battles. and not let the little things set me off. It gets better and better.
MF9282
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I am the one with the short fuse, not a flattering quality but that would be me!! He is so passive I need to chec and see if he has a pulse sometimes!!
kns11
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I'm the one with the temper. FI is fantastic in calming me down and making me look at situations rationally. He really is my rock!!!! FI is so very laid back he lets things roll off of him. It takes a heck of a lot to get him p.oed. Although, his family has a wonderful way of getting him extremely annoyed and bothered.
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Posted by MF9282
I am the one with the short fuse, not a flattering quality but that would be me!! He is so passive I need to chec and see if he has a pulse sometimes!!
shopaholic07
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Before I met FH, I had a (very) short fuse. I would blow up the smallest thing. Even in the beginning of our relationship I was like this. However, as time went by, I learned to be a lot more calmer and patient. FH can have a short fuse at times so when that happens, I usually try to stay calm and level-headed because if we both start flipping out on each other, nothing will get resolved. What usually ends up happening is that we will say what we want to say......the conversation will abruptly end.....and after a few moments, one of us will give the other an enormous hug and we talk things out and come out to a resolution.
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Posted by eelharas4700
sometimes i can get mad at the dumbest things....but i get quiet. and then he tries to make me laugh....fh doesn't really get mad. he gets cranky...lol....it takes him a lot to get mad.
FH does this to me as well----I try so hard not to laugh but he always gets me to laugh and smile
