DId you pursue your man? Did he persue you? Was it natural and mutual? DId you start off playing games? Did you fret over whose turn it was to call???
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jantany26
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omg, in my case he was the one that pursue me. he will call me all the time and honestly I wasn't interested because I was trying to pursue someone else. He finally got tired and stopped calling me, it was then that I actually started wondering why he stopped calling and I called him instead. he invited me to go out, and then the rest is history.
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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi
DId you pursue your man? Did he persue you? Was it natural and mutual? DId you start off playing games? Did you fret over whose turn it was to call???
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well i was the one who pursued him when we first saw each other that first night...After that he pursued me.. No games...never liked the stupid games people played in relationships Yes i used to wonder if he would call at a particular time or day...he always did
FeliciaDA
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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi
DId you pursue your man? Did he persue you? Was it natural and mutual? DId you start off playing games? Did you fret over whose turn it was to call???
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You probably know my answers but I'll post anyhow:
1) Since we met online, I cannot say anyone pursued the other. However HE made the initial contact and HE kept emailing /calling and that set the tone for the 'courtship' so to speak.. I was always the type of girl who would NEVER pick up the phone to call (as you know) 2) it was definitely natural and mutual .. it was SO easy and noooo game playing from day 1, that's how I just knew it was different 3) As I said above, there was no fretting on whose turn it was to call because I never called! LMAO. Nah seriously I had dated tons of losers before Dh and they ALL STUNK when it came to calling when they said they would. ANthony always did what he said he would do, and I respeted that about him and eventually loved him for it
nov04LIbride
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He definitely pursued me--gifts, flowers, and notes on my car all the time from day one!
It was natural, but I was right out of a LTR and didn't want to move too quickly to get serious, and he wanted more time at first than I did. I wanted to take it more slowly.
No games--I think that was partly how I knew he was for me. The games were over. He called the morning after we met and asked me out to dinner the following night (it would've been that night, but it was Thanksgiving!).
He called all the time. I never worried about him not calling, but I don't think I called him until a few weeks into things (when we had already said I love you!).
I still think a man likes to think he is the one pursuing.
usuk2004
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No games--I think that was partly how I knew he was for me. The games were over. He called the morning after we met and asked me out to dinner the following night
This is how it was for me too.
We met at the Boardy Barn of all places!!! and I was totally not expecting to meet anyone that night (it was my best friend's bachelorette party). We hit it off and he asked for my phone number, but then the bartender wouldn't let him take the pen away from the bar to get my number, so he wrote his down for me. I called him to invite him to happy hour with friends, but he was away that weekend. We finally got together for a date, he left my apartment at 3am and then called me at 10am at work to ask me what I was doing that night.
