What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

conigs25 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 12:12 AM

What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

Mine are:
1. entrance into reception hall song
2. hotel to stay in
3. where to get ready
4. where to take pics

mbm750 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 12:22 AM

Re: What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

Posted by conigs25

Mine are:
1. entrance into reception hall song
2. hotel to stay in
3. where to get ready
4. where to take pics

we have some of the same ones!

hotel to stay in
where to get ready (this would be easier if i were from here... i feel bad kicking fh out of his parents' house to his grandparents house, but i also don't want to be too far from the church)
where to take pics...
and limos... trying to delegate this last one to fh

diggity10 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 12:24 AM

Re: What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

right mine is:
the guest list
then it will prob be seating arrangements, i dread that!

CaMacho Posted: Jul 15, 2005 07:22 AM

Re: What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

Right now it's choosing a BM dress.

But I think the guest list will be hard too.

kissy27 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 07:35 AM

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1) seating arrangements...I can't sit certain family members with others!

2) Entrance songs

3) Mother, daughter dance song

4) getting FH to come with me to book limos

GsCM4EVA Posted: Jul 15, 2005 08:14 AM

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1.Picking DJ
2.Picking Photographer
3.Picking Videographer
I haven't done anything yet!! I have NO motivation......

ChrissynRicky Posted: Jul 15, 2005 08:24 AM

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GUEST LIST!

We just finished sending out the STD's....I can only imagine what the actual invitation process will be like....so hard deciding who to and who not to!

SIBride06 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 08:30 AM

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Mine is:

Saving money !!!
Dealing with my in-laws.
Seating arrangements.. I dread that!
Guestlist

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 09:16 AM

Re: What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

Picking a florist
Picking limos
Finding something to cover me up and keep me warm that day

MissingTheBGene Posted: Jul 15, 2005 10:12 AM

Re: What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

Guestlists! (I had to ask FI like SIXTEEN times to get me his friend's addresses and I still don't have them!)

Seating arrangements (so dreading this)

Working out the details with the DJ (FI and I have such different opinions!)

Picking out a florist

That's all for right now, but I'm sure there will be more shortly...

sarahbelle Posted: Jul 15, 2005 10:36 AM

Re: What wedding 'chore' are you finding to be the hardest?

saving money/worrying about money

deciding whether to get limos

cindyandkevin Posted: Jul 15, 2005 11:38 AM

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Def dreading having to dole out all this money!!!
I have no idea about flowers. And I'm not looking forward to registering!!

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 11:39 AM

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Posted by cindyandkevin

And I'm not looking forward to registering!!

I wasn't either - though it took a while, it was painless. And it actually became fun.

SuzBride Posted: Jul 15, 2005 11:39 AM

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Guest list - or really cutting the guest least (actually dealing with FILs who need to cut their list)

Thumballina Posted: Jul 15, 2005 11:42 AM

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Where do I start:

BM Dresses
Flowers - centerpiece ideas and color scheme
saving money and more money
Bridal Party gift ideas...

and everything else thats going to be coming up that i have to get done...

the one good thing is that I know I'll drop the last 5 lbs that I wanted to drop before the wedding...like that...STRESSSSSSS

iffer042373 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 11:47 AM

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Well I think the seat chart will be the hardest for me also getting a final guest list together since I still still haven't recieved a list from FH father and Step-mother.

serendipity0680 Posted: Jul 15, 2005 11:59 AM

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Picking BM dresses
Getting a DJ
Getting LImos
How I am going to wear my hair
Who is going to do my hair
Who is going to do my make-up
the list goes on and on..hopefully a lot will be taken care of before I have to go back to work in September.

mrsgtobe Posted: Jul 15, 2005 12:14 PM

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I have two, at least right now:

1. Finding photo/video - I feel like we've seen so many photographers, and they're either really expensive (but we love them) or they're not so great (but they're in our budget). We've got champagne taste and beer pockets, as they say.

2. Getting FH to contact rabbis - We are an interfaith couple. I, the Catholic one, took care of finding a priest. I asked FH to take care of finding a rabbi since he's Jewish. I gave him phone numbers galore, and he hasn't called a single one. I'm really close to telling him that if he doesn't get his butt in gear and find a rabbi soon, we're getting married in church. He's so LAZY!!!