I have a friend that I know since about the 5th grade. We were close. then she moved upstate. We would call each other then the calls on her end were real seldom. Then I was the only one calling. I called her to say I was engaged, then 2 weeks later she calls me to say she got engaged. She never told me that she was seeing anyone. When she mailed me a b-day card, she asked me in the card to be a bridesmaid. I had 3 weeks to give her an answer. The colors and dresses were picked out. I had to turn her down since it was so soon after my sister's wedding. I couldn't go to her wedding since it was out of town and fh was out of work. I get her response card back, she declined. Do you think she declined since I didn't go to hers? For her wedding, there wasn't any rooms blocked.
What do you think
Mrs. dleeny
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this is just my opinion, but yes. I think she declined b/c you declined hers.
Happybride2005
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this is just my opinion, but yes. I think she declined b/c you declined hers.
that's what i thought. she knew fh was out of work. to me, putting food on the table was more important. what hurts a little more, my sister had to call her to see if she was coming to the shower
February05
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did she write anything on the rsvp or give any reasoning?
Mrs. dleeny
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this is just my opinion, but yes. I think she declined b/c you declined hers.
that's what i thought. she knew fh was out of work. to me, putting food on the table was more important. what hurts a little more, my sister had to call her to see if she was coming to the shower
yea, I agree that it stinks. you clearly had a very good reason.
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She asked you in a card to be a BM?
Well...I agree... I think she declined because you did. Just have to think that she wants to 'get back at you' and not attend your wedding.
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Posted by neeniebean86
did she write anything on the rsvp or give any reasoning?
sorry but we won't be able to attend. this is from someone that i know over 20 yrs. i hope i dont sound like a baby in this i guess it just hurts a little
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She asked you in a card to be a BM?
Well...I agree... I think she declined because you did. Just have to think that she wants to 'get back at you' and not attend your wedding.
i know. if she wants to contact me, she knows where to find me
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Posted by neeniebean86
did she write anything on the rsvp or give any reasoning?
sorry but we won't be able to attend. this is from someone that i know over 20 yrs. i hope i dont sound like a baby in this i guess it just hurts a little
believe me, I know how you feel.
I was MOH for my 'friend' many yrs ago. I spent a TON of money on her wedding. she moved to GA last yr and now tells me that she might not be able to come to my wedding b/c it's too expensive
all I know is this...if she's not at my wedding, she can lose my #.
Lori0517
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gail people stink, when it comes to weddings, I have learned its very one sideded. cheep up :) its okay the people that matter will be there.
littlebookworm4
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Posted by dleeny
this is just my opinion, but yes. I think she declined b/c you declined hers.
I'm going to have to agree
Happybride2005
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gail people stink, when it comes to weddings, I have learned its very one sideded. cheep up :) its okay the people that matter will be there.
