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Your best friend asked u to be MOH but you are thinking about having a baby around the same time as her wedding...How would u schedule TTC?? Should u be a prego MOH...?? Or would it take away from her day???

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this is a tough one........i kind of feel that if you are pregnant and close to your date...the last thing youll want to do is dote on someone else. (not in a selfish way)....and i think that your friend should have someone at that time that can be fully attentive....as should YOU being pregnant!

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I would talk to her and be honest with her and see what she thinks, how she feels about it

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I would continue with my plans.

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You should cotinue with your plans and just let her know. You could tell her that you are honored but would also understand if she were to choose someone else considering the circumstances. Good Luck!!!

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i would talk with her and see how she feels about that... for most girls I would say to not be worried about being a preggo MOH, however myself personally I wouldnt do it..

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How close is your baby to the wedding? If you are near delivery, I'd say no...you'd be uncomforable, can't help with dress, mioght be early and miss the wedding (wasted expense, stress on her), etc. If not sure,,,if you can afford it and have the time. I sure she'd understand if you told her why you're declining

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my sister is my MOH and she is pregnant, her baby is due exactly one month after my wedding, her baby shower is a week before my wedding and I am THRILLED!!! We are having so much fun planning and my wedding and her baby..what a happy time..there is no better reason to celebrate..I am so happy for my sister to be pregnant..I dont give a sh^%t that its right by my wedding...we plan for both celbrations and I couldnt imagine a happier time for both of us!!

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Let me add that being pregnant does not take away from anything..atleast thats how I look at it. I asked her to be my MOH because I love her and want her standing by me when I say my vows..that is the point of a MOH. Chances are if your friend asked you to be a MOH, its because she loves you and wants you by her side..thats whats important! They say babies are alwasy early, so she will be ready to go close to my wedding..its no big deal..she is still helping me..and I am helping her..its just kind of works itself out! If ya cant afford it, tahts a different thing altogether..if my sis came to em and said she couldnt afford it..I would understand..actually..I would pay for everything for her because like I said..I want her standing up there with me when I get married..thats the point of being a MOH.

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I was a 9 month PG MOH at my cousins wedding I told her and left the decision up to her. She said she didn't care at all she wanted me to be a part of her day.

As for you, I would continue to live your life and do what you want to do.

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I would probably (secretly) tell her my plan and let her decide what she wants to do.

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