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WHAT WOULD YOU DO

RedHead Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:38 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:38 PM

WHAT WOULD YOU DO

thanks everyone..problem solved

Moehick Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:39 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:39 PM

Re: WHAT WOULD YOU DO

CONFRONT!!

Confront!! Confront!!

Lisa Rose Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:39 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:39 PM

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Confront her

RedHead Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:41 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:41 PM

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But if you had proof...100% proof...
what would you say?
WHY?

swags1016 Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:43 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:43 PM

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If you had 100% proof I would not contact her at all and then the moment she tried to contact you I would hit her with all the information!!!

OR I would try to confront her infront a ton of our mutual friends!!!

But backstabbers and bad friends always get it in the end because Karma is a HUGE BIATCH THAT COMES BACK ON YOU 100% over!

Butterflybride Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:43 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:43 PM

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I would be angry, but I would be interested in hearing what she has to say about it. Maybe she's doing it out of jealousy? Have a chat with her and try to figure it out.

Robinella Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:45 PM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:45 PM

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Would definitely say something...people talk but if they are really your friend they should always be able to say to your face what they say when you aren't around...i keep that rule with my family and my friends!

september2004 Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:16 AM+

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Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:16 AM

Re: WHAT WOULD YOU DO

how do you have 100% proof?

how bad was it?

RedHead Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:17 AM+

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Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:17 AM

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Posted by september2004

how do you have 100% proof?

how bad was it?

they wrote it and it was copied and sent to me !
it was mean...

lolita4life Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:21 AM+

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Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:21 AM

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oct.... you got FM

RedHead Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:25 AM+

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Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:25 AM

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Posted by lolita4life

oct.... you got FM

got it

september2004 Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:28 AM+

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Posted: Nov 20, 2004 12:28 AM

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Posted by oct.2004bride

Posted by september2004

how do you have 100% proof?

how bad was it?

they wrote it and it was copied and sent to me !
it was mean...

who sent it? what was the motivation of the person who did that?

i guess it would depend on what was said. i don't know if i would bother confronting if it was really bad, i would just move on... however, in a fit of rage, could you see yourself saying whatever was said about someone else?

is this person worth it to you to try to salvage a relationship? if so, i would confront her. if you think it's a lost cause, i would forget it.

not fun...

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Nov 20, 2004 07:42 AM+

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Posted: Nov 20, 2004 07:42 AM

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if i had solid proof to be honest i wouldnt even bother contacting them. im sure they will pick up on the fact that you arent calling them and contact you and then you can let them have it. i think everyone gets to a point in there life that if a friendship is 100 percent drama alll the time it isnt worth it. i give up so many friends for that reason i work at work and work on my relationship with my dh and with my family i want my friendships to be easier after all your friends are the people your supposed to go to and complain about all the drama in each others lives not the ones to cause cause massive amounts of it. i hope it works out