my cousin is separated and dating someone else....
I want to invite his X and her sister who im sort of friendly with (at this point she thinks shes invited ) and (my sis sent her a shower invite).
My aunt approached me about it.....she mentioned it but she said do what you want its your wedding...
what would you do? You have no idea the awquardness I feel.
Mrs. V 2008
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invite them both if you are close with them...otherwise i wouldn't and if you do separate them at different tables?
Toucan311
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It can be potentially uncomfortable, but I think if you're having a large enough reception there shouldnt be reason for them to cross paths too much; just seat them far apart and cross your fingers that they'll be mature enough to avoid eachother.
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I honestly feel like you have to do you what you think is right for YOUR day. No matter what, someone is not going to like something about so and so's dress, where they are sitting, etc. I know that a situation like that has a potential to be akward, but in the end they need to suck it up for you!
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i think i remember you posting about this situation. i would invite them, there will be plenty of people for them to talk to no big deal. if it's what you want, it's your decision. i think it's safe to say that there won't be any drama.
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invite them both if you are close with them...otherwise i wouldn't and if you do separate them at different tables?
definatley diff tables...far far away from them lol... i mean i know her for 6 years already im not Close Close but she knows im iviting practically everyone i know to my wedding ya know.
She wrote on my weddig website 'cant wait to shake my a$$' my aunt saw it
Mrs. V 2008
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Posted by Bride 2 Be
invite them both if you are close with them...otherwise i wouldn't and if you do separate them at different tables?
definatley diff tables...far far away from them lol... i mean i know her for 6 years already im not Close Close but she knows im iviting practically everyone i know to my wedding ya know.
She wrote on my weddig website 'cant wait to shake my a$$' my aunt saw it
ok lol! maybe talk to her beforehand??
Mizzdimple
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Posted by Mimacat
It can be potentially uncomfortable, but I think if you're having a large enough reception there shouldnt be reason for them to cross paths too much; just seat them far apart and cross your fingers that they'll be mature enough to avoid eachother.
Thats what im thinking....ugh!
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I think if you want her at your wedding, you should invite her! I would just suggest putting them at opposite sides of the RH, and possibly giving her a heads up that your cousin is bringing a date, and giving your cousin a heads up that she will be coming!
Mizzdimple
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invite them both if you are close with them...otherwise i wouldn't and if you do separate them at different tables?
definatley diff tables...far far away from them lol... i mean i know her for 6 years already im not Close Close but she knows im iviting practically everyone i know to my wedding ya know.
She wrote on my weddig website 'cant wait to shake my a$$' my aunt saw it
ok lol! maybe talk to her beforehand??
Like what should i say lol....im so nervous...!
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if they can be civil around eachother invite both...but i know couples who broke up and when they see eachother it turns into DRAMA and cause scenes so keep that in mind but if they're not like that then dont worry.
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Posted by Mimacat
It can be potentially uncomfortable, but I think if you're having a large enough reception there shouldnt be reason for them to cross paths too much; just seat them far apart and cross your fingers that they'll be mature enough to avoid eachother.
Thats what im thinking....ugh!
Hire some security just in case
Mizzdimple
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Posted by MrsHtobe
I think if you want her at your wedding, you should invite her! I would just suggest putting them at opposite sides of the RH, and possibly giving her a heads up that your cousin is bringing a date, and giving your cousin a heads up that she will be coming!
Thats the thing I could care less...if she is there or not...but i know her for years i cant NOT invite her...she is now like a 'going out friend'....those friends you only see when ur going out with ur girls/ bday etc.
Mrs. V 2008
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invite them both if you are close with them...otherwise i wouldn't and if you do separate them at different tables?
definatley diff tables...far far away from them lol... i mean i know her for 6 years already im not Close Close but she knows im iviting practically everyone i know to my wedding ya know.
She wrote on my weddig website 'cant wait to shake my a$$' my aunt saw it
ok lol! maybe talk to her beforehand??
Like what should i say lol....im so nervous...!
Don't F U C K my wedding up B I T C H!! lol j/k..i would just let her know that you don't want any problems that your inviting both of them, and don't want it to ruin your day...that kind of stuff
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If you are inviting her to the shower you have to invite her to the wedding. Hopefully they are both adults and won't do anything to ruin your special day.
Mizzdimple
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Posted by Espo22
if they can be civil around eachother invite both...but i know couples who broke up and when they see eachother it turns into DRAMA and cause scenes so keep that in mind but if they're not like that then dont worry.
Yea im sure they can be civil..... i just know my aunt will talk as if im aging against FAMILY
Mizzdimple
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invite them both if you are close with them...otherwise i wouldn't and if you do separate them at different tables?
definatley diff tables...far far away from them lol... i mean i know her for 6 years already im not Close Close but she knows im iviting practically everyone i know to my wedding ya know.
She wrote on my weddig website 'cant wait to shake my a$$' my aunt saw it
ok lol! maybe talk to her beforehand??
Like what should i say lol....im so nervous...!
Don't F U C K my wedding up B I T C H!! lol j/k..i would just let her know that you don't want any problems that your inviting both of them, and don't want it to ruin your day...that kind of stuff
hahahhahahhah ...yea i will slip it in there somehow
Mizzdimple
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Thank you ladies , those too who i didnt respond. I feel better...for now lol
