One of my BMs dropped out because she lost her job and wouldnt be able to afford to be in the wedding... mind you she just went to Canada and Guatimela, sp. So FH doesnt want her at the wedding but, I was still inviting her because we have been friends for sooo long. What should I do?
EmiNoa628
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If the dress is no so expensive try to help her...
Try to speak to FH and work something out with her...
WishfulRinne
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Well, in all honesty I would would annoyed about her going to Canada and Guatemala BUT she is your friend. If it were me, I would want my friend there. JMO.
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Posted by EmiNoa628
If the dress is no so expensive try to help her...
Try to speak to FH and work something out with her...
No she's out and I am NOT helping her out at all.... reasons behind it. Just figuring out if I she still invite her.
FutureMrsG
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Personally I would still invite her.
GT143EA
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Personally I would still invite her.
me too
coldasice217
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I would still invite her and leave the ball in her court to say yes.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I would still invite her and leave the ball in her court to say yes.
ITA
FinallyMrsB18
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I agree with the other girls that you should invite her, and leave it up to her. However from your response it seems like there is more too it, and you don't need any drama the day of either. So I am torn.
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ultimately its yours and FHs decision- if you dont invite her, be prepared to cut her out completely, it may make mending the relationship impossible.
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Invite her anyway. It would be strange to ask her to be in the BP and then not even invite her to the wedding.
I know the vacay thing is a bit strange and somewhat contradictory... but there isn't much you can do about what she decides to spend her money on. Did she go away before or after she lost her job?
I say invite her... and be the bigger person.
B2B 2009
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I'm with the other girls.. i would invite her! It's her loss that she is not playing a bigger role in your special day but that doesn't mean she shouldn't be there
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I'm with the other girls.. i would invite her! It's her loss that she is not playing a bigger role in your special day but that doesn't mean she shouldn't be there
