There are 2 people on FHs family that clearly do not like me. I have tried a few times to be nice & get along with them but at every family function I feel awkward & feel like I'm not included in any conversation or feel like they give me an attitude.
Honestly I could care less, but since its FH's family, I will do my best to get along with them.
So I get a text from FH tonight asking me if I can give him my email address bc 'Mr & Mrs we hate Kerri' want to email me their pictures so i can print them since they dont know how.... Why should I do something nice for the 2 people that HATE me?!?!? I'm so mad....
BellaRegina
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ooooh thats a good one! I would be like....heck no! Make an excuse that you ran out of ink or your too busy. Why waste your time on people that you will never win over.....but then again i'm spiteful and mean LOL
Ashley627
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mmm tough one, I say take the high road, you will come out looking like the bigger person, how could anyone be mad or give you attitude about that??
FutureMrsCat050412
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I have been the bigger person twice!!!! It sucks when you still get s*** on!
I think I ran out of ink.....
rnesenoff
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i would like to say that i would be like 'no way' but that would be lying - i would just do it and pretend that its all fine with me and them - but... give the FH my real opinion and make sure he knows that he owes you one :)
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Posted by rnesenoff
i would like to say that i would be like 'no way' but that would be lying - i would just do it and pretend that its all fine with me and them - but... give the FH my real opinion and make sure he knows that he owes you one :)
Yep id do the same thing!
I only have a problem w FHs cousin on his dads side. She's a queen biatch to me. I stopped dealing w her completely and i told his whole family why. They agree w me.
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i agree...i would do it just b/c its my FH family but tell him behind his back that i am a bigger person and that he owes me one. I would just do it for him...Do you think he would do it if it was vice versa?
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I say kill them with kindness. Don't let anyone alter who you are because they obviously have their own issues if they are treating you badly. I would do it and definitely tell FH exactly how this couple makes you feel. Although I do feel you still need to stand up for yourself and not let them take advantage of you.
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There will always be some ppl who u just cannot pleaseee.. I am still referred to as the girl friend by some of fh close family friends...
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FutureMrsCat050412
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They need to print pictures? Why don't you just send them to CVS (or whichever one of those places have those photo printing things)? They look better than ones printed at home anyway.
I'd probably do it and then talk to FH about how they treat you. Does he know?
(I'm also somewhat amazed that he didn't know your email address!)
Thats what I said, send them to CVS. I've told FH before how I don't like the way they treat me. He doesn't take sides. He has no reason to know my email address actually. We have never emailed each other ever! lol
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Posted by courtnjay2012
I say kill them with kindness. Don't let anyone alter who you are because they obviously have their own issues if they are treating you badly. I would do it and definitely tell FH exactly how this couple makes you feel. Although I do feel you still need to stand up for yourself and not let them take advantage of you.
I love the saying 'Kill them with Kindness' my grandmother has instilled that into me. I also agree to never allow others to change who you are...if you're nice, then continue to be nice and vent to us! I would probably print the pictures.
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Yeah I would love to say dont print them, but thats not what I would do myself.. I'd probably print them but let FH know that you're doing it bc its his fam and soon to be yours but your not thrilled and dont think they deserve it.
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I would probably do it also. I would ask my FH to not volunteer you to do things in the future for these people. If they are going to treat you like crap you should not have to do things for them.
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I wouldn't print them. The best I could do is tell them to google the nearest CVS. Then.. tell my FH if he really wants to help them so badly, then he should do it himself.
(NOTE: I used to be the nice one who would give my last cookie to friends. Now I tell them to buy their own box).
5272012
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I would be the bigger person :) I agree, kill them with kindness
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I wouldn't print them. The best I could do is tell them to google the nearest CVS. Then.. tell my FH if he really wants to help them so badly, then he should do it himself.
(NOTE: I used to be the nice one who would give my last cookie to friends. Now I tell them to buy their own box).
HAHAHAHAHA i love your lil end note hahaha !
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Posted by chrisandjeanne
Posted by courtnjay2012
I say kill them with kindness. Don't let anyone alter who you are because they obviously have their own issues if they are treating you badly. I would do it and definitely tell FH exactly how this couple makes you feel. Although I do feel you still need to stand up for yourself and not let them take advantage of you.
I love the saying 'Kill them with Kindness' my grandmother has instilled that into me. I also agree to never allow others to change who you are...if you're nice, then continue to be nice and vent to us! I would probably print the pictures.
I agree.. 'Kill them with Kindness', I would print the pictures, and vent about it to FH
