What would you do?

harts2976 Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:05 PM

What would you do?

So I sent my save the dates out a year ago.... There is one person that i barely talk to now. No fight or anything. We worked together for years but i since left that job and she never comes out b/c she had a baby. I literally saw her once since then and it was b/c i ran into her at Target. Should i just invite her anyway. Or not?

MrsG2011 Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:09 PM

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Ooo She got a STD! thats tuff.

The good angel in me say Yes bc she knows the date and it would be rude

however:
you have to pay for this person that you obviously dont want there based on your post...

So the bad angel says 'No, its too expensive.. use the invitation on someone else who you really care for'

harts2976 Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:17 PM

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Posted by MrsG2011

Ooo She got a STD! thats tuff.

The good angel in me say Yes bc she knows the date and it would be rude

however:
you have to pay for this person that you obviously dont want there based on your post...

So the bad angel says 'No, its too expensive.. use the invitation on someone else who you really care for'

I don't NOT want her there... IDK which will be more weird inviting her after not seeing her for almost a year, or not inviting her since she has a STD. I mean we text here and there like once a month. I guess i should just invite her

Im getting Married Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:41 PM

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Posted by harts2976

Posted by MrsG2011

Ooo She got a STD! thats tuff.

The good angel in me say Yes bc she knows the date and it would be rude

however:
you have to pay for this person that you obviously dont want there based on your post...

So the bad angel says 'No, its too expensive.. use the invitation on someone else who you really care for'

I don't NOT want her there... IDK which will be more weird inviting her after not seeing her for almost a year, or not inviting her since she has a STD. I mean we text here and there like once a month. I guess i should just invite her

Since you still to stay in contact even though it just texting I would still send an invite

Chanwich Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:48 PM

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I'd still invite her. Maybe she thinks its weird too and will decline

RandEWedding2011 Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:55 PM

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Posted by Chanwich

I'd still invite her. Maybe she thinks its weird too and will decline

this

Chelechel1 Posted: Nov 28, 2010 04:57 PM

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If you sent her a Save the Date, you should. Unless you had a big falling out, you should invite her.

Someone sent me an STD a year before her wedding and never invited me when the time came. Even though we weren't close anymore, it was tacky of her to do that.