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whats a good amount of $ to spend on a shower gift

GiannisWifey Posted:

whats a good amount of $ to spend on a shower gift

if you are a BM???

shes my BFF and I got her one place setting from her fine china (each BM got her one setting) and I also got her a serving for her flatware on my own and the 8x10 picture frame.....

????


ETA: so far im at $220?
AngnShaun Posted:

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are you helping pay for the shower itself?

GiannisWifey Posted:

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nope - the mom is......

ourwedding9510 Posted:

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I think that's good enough. I just had my BFF's shower and I got her a china place setting and a platter dish that had all of the bridal party on it.

soonT0beMrsD Posted:

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i think you are good with what you have got already

Bride825 Posted:

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That sounds like a very generous gift :)

summerbride20 Posted:

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To me, that is an awesome gift. My MOH and BM not only did not show up for my engagement party, they didn't even send a gift or a card...

halfbaked Posted:

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That sounds very generous! My MOH got me NOTHING!
AngnShaun Posted:

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are you ok with spending the $220? you can always add an amex, visa or bbb gc if you feel you need to give more... but i think $220 is a good amount to spend

GiannisWifey Posted:

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at a normal shower, I give no less than an $80 gift........for a close friend ill give around 100-150ish......

I didn't know if being in the bridal party and since shes my BFF if I should give her more. I guess I can always add a gc or something
christine2010 Posted:

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When I was in my friends Bridal Party the shower gift was $250 per person.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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i think what you have is plenty. Its a very nice gift!!

MisyMiss32 Posted:

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I think that is just fine!
Lsorrent Posted:

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I think you're good. My BP bought me all of my linens, crystal wine glasses, and decanter. I think they spent around $150-$200 each.

NewYorker09 Posted:

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I think that you have been VERY generous! I wouldn't spend anymore than you already have (and know many people who wouldn't even spend close to what you did)!

Sandradv121 Posted:

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$220 is more than enough.

IrinaBNY Posted:

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I spent about $500 (not including the decorations and invites and stuff) on my best friend's bridal shower.. (i'm also spending about $500 on her baby shower now.)

marinai7 Posted:

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I think that's a great gift.

SoontobeGallagher Posted:

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I think you are good.

DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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I think you have spent enough but if you feel like you have to add more I agree with the gc or how about a gc for a mani/ pedi or massage.

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