What's Next?

ladies I don't know what to do next!!!???



my main 2 must haves were the RH & Duet and
I got them

now I dont know what to do??!!!

I have noooo idea what kind of flowers I want, I have so many diff ideas...so I don't feel ready to do that yet

Video- FMIL is hopefully paying for...so whenever she brings it up again then we will dive in- I already have it narrowed down

DJ- FH is taking care of next week- he was in the business for many years- so I trust him and he promised he'd book it next week

Limos??
Invites?
BM Dresses?

I don't know!!!!???

what should be the priority?
how soon do you need to book limos and flowers and video?

TIA!!!!

are you getting married at the church or the rh?

I'd book the church - or get the officient next.

church is a good call.
oh no - weren't you doing yours at the gardens?
so then that's done..
I would go BM dresses next or limos.
I did rh, church, photo, dj... now i m doing bm dresses then flowers n limos... or maybe limos then flowers. lol

I wanted to get my bm dresses picked out so i can pick flowers. so that might be a good thing to do next for you???

You have plenty of time for flowers,video, and limos. You can do that 3-6 months before if you wanted.

I would look for BM dresses.

thx ladies!!

no church, but I do need officiant...
FH refuses to use Rev Deb bc she's a woman...Im so annoyed at that, Imet her at the showcase and she was sooo nice!


I guess I will do BM dresses...my BMs have been dying to go shopping, they are itching after all the appointments for my dress! lol


can you ladies rec your limo company?
how does the limo stuff work?
do i need 3 limos?
one for me
one for fh fam
one for my fam?

You can always book the florist, choose the colors you think you'll want, and then modify if you need to after you pick BM dresses

You're way ahead of the game, no worries!

id def say limo's thats my next big and last vendor...i feel like i need to get a move onn that lol
and id def say 3 limos like you said...
ive heard of camelot, royalty and sir oilver is ones people seem to like

i feel like im so far behind! it seems like so many 11 girls have all major vendors booked!

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Posted by LoveyDovey

i feel like im so far behind! it seems like so many 11 girls have all major vendors booked!

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But there are way more of us who don't... and tons of girls who aren't even engaged yet who will probably get married before you!! Relax! You have plenty of time, you have a lot done!

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Posted by LoveyDovey

no church, but I do need officiant...
FH refuses to use Rev Deb bc she's a woman...Im so annoyed at that, Imet her at the showcase and she was sooo nice!

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I refused to have a woman too.
I'm not traditional at all, but that was one thing.. I just always pictured standing in front of a man.

I'm so glad I stuck to this too because I love my officiant, so super nice, and I've read so many great reviews and recommendations on here I'm happy with my decision.

Plus he answers all my dopey email questions I ask super quick and without getting annoyed.

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Posted by JLWSJC

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Posted by LoveyDovey

i feel like im so far behind! it seems like so many 11 girls have all major vendors booked!

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But there are way more of us who don't... and tons of girls who aren't even engaged yet who will probably get married before you!! Relax! You have plenty of time, you have a lot done!

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I agree with Jamie, don't stress - you really do have plenty of time, you'll have so much to stress about later on that I wouldn't worry now.

I mean you still have over a year.
I'm down to almost 9 months, if I didn't have major things booked by now, it would be time to start panicking.

thx girls!

you sound like my FH...he's always telling me to relax, he's like you're a train, full speed ahead at all times!

jess, who is your officiant? is he non denominational?

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Posted by LoveyDovey

thx girls!

you sound like my FH...he's always telling me to relax, he's like you're a train, full speed ahead at all times!

jess, who is your officiant? is he non denominational?

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Minister Keith.

Don't be fooled by the 'minister' part though, he's performing a non-denominational ceremony for FH & I. Plus he's reasonably priced.

But the minister part helps with my relatives that are upset with us not getting married in a church.

bm dresses can take anywhere from 6-9 months, and I am having a hard time finding the color and style that I want, so if your as picky as me, i'd get crackin!! lol

oh plus you gotta get them fitted afterward !!

Personally, I'd do the limos first and get that out of the way.

I would do the BM dresses around 9 months before the wedding. Atleast go shop around with your girls, and narrow it down.

I'd do flowers after that.