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What's the normal procedure???

Spindle Posted:

What's the normal procedure???

What is the normal procedure for RSVP's on wedding invitations. If the bride doesn't live at home, do the cards go back to her or her parents?

Florida Posted:

Re: What's the normal procedure???

If you and your FI are paying for the bulk of wedding then have the rsvp go to you whether or not you live at home I did this 31 yrs. ago & my daughter is doing the same now

hocus Posted:

Re: What's the normal procedure???



Traditionally the host (the person footing the bill) gets the RSVP.

However, it doesnt have to be that way. I don't think most guests look at the card and say --'Oh my the RSVP is going to XXX, when it should be going to YYY'

Have it sent to someone who is organized and will keep track of the yes and no rate. I wanted to do it and my mother would have been slow at keeping me informed, since she was traveling a lot during the wedding preparations.

sk1nny27 Posted:

Re: What's the normal procedure???

im having them sent to my father (and step mom's) cause they are hosting. but i told them i want to open them!!! haha

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