if they ask you again, you need to tell them its the BRIDAL PARTY's responsibility!!! Unless they're just trying to get you riled up, in which case, they succeeded!
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I can understand, I am begining to think that a lot of BM are absent minded and do not care as much, but can u imagine if it was there own wedding and people did this to them? I have a BM I play phone tag with to go to the store to get measured, and also have everyone asking ,me when , is your shower is... DUH?! I am not the one planning it. You have my whole hearted sympathies.
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goldilocks
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What about your mom, do you think you could mention to her what they've been asking and that she would take the reins?
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My Bridal Party is **ssing me off.. I set them an e-mail in March about the brides Maids dresses. There were 3 different ways they could order the dress (go to boutique, from RK Bridal or Netbride.com). They all agreed to order thru Netbride.com since it was the cheapest. Totally understand.
They decided that one girl was going to order them, and put on her credit card. Which was great for me! One less thing to deal with. Mind you I send the original e-mail in March...Talked with one of the BM this weekend, they still have not ordered the dresses!!
5 month to go till the wedding and they still havent done anything. This was the only thing that I asked any of the girls to take care of. So I sent an e-mail to them asking for their sizes. And the girl who said she would take care of it still has not sent me her size.
My MOH, didn't even bother to read my e-mail, because she send me an e-mail saying she was not sure which size chart to use because she did not know the manufacturer - which I sent to her months ago!!
Just getting really sick of it all!!! I understand that this is not everyones first priority but mine, but I havent asked them to do anything!! They didnt even come with me to find my wedding dress...
Dont get me started on FI.....5 months to go and I just want to call the whole thing off and go to Vegas! Thought FI procrastinating is also annoying me!!
Sorry need to vent!
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Blushing bride I would call your BMs if I were you. They HAVE to step up to the plate. You should tell them YOU should know when I am having a shower since YOU should be helping the other girls plan it.
Sunny
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Maybe they are just trying to throw you off?
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I totally sympathize with all of you...check out my post from yesterday when one of my bridesmaids had the NERVE to send me an etiquette article on when i should hold the RD because, essentially, that was the ONLY date prior to my wedding that she 'saved' to attend.
This same girl refuses to go get measured because she is too busy and can't get it done any time in the next two weeks DESPITE the fact that she works one minute from the store. She told me...can I have my personal trainer measure me and fax you the measurements???? HELLO--you have time to meet with your personal trainer but it is too much to ask you to get measured for my weddings?
People HONESTLY SHOCK ME
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Hopefully they are just trying to throw you off because your profile says you are getting married in August. If that's the case, I they should be well into planning your shower. They are probably just pulling your leg
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my moh actually came to my mil to plan the shower. meanwhile there were 7 ohter girls in the bridal party to help with it. she just did not want to plan it. she threw it together. i was actually dissappointed!