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What's your total budget??

Original post by Amy0208

Hi,brides to be
What's your total budget on your wedding?And how much will you spend on dress,church,guest and so on?

jcreilly Posted:

Re: What's your total budget??


Posted by las1

Originally our budget was $20-25k. Now we are up to $30k and this is without the rings and the HM. It has caused many disagreements between FH and I because we are over budget (some of it is my fault though).


I did the same thing, FH was not happy lol
jcreilly Posted:

Re: What's your total budget??


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by Sarahgetsmarried

Lets see:

Dress (includes veil, shoes, alterations etc)
$4,000

Reception- $45,000
Flowers $12,000
Band $12,000
Music $1200
Limo $1200
Misc $800
Gifts $1,000
Hotel $1,200
Tux $free (grooms is free rental)
photog $4000
Video$2,500
Honeymoon-$10,000

With stuff im sure I forgot (between tipping etc)

About $90,000- $100,000


wish i had ur budget


HOLY crap I wish I had your budget
MNM91710 Posted:

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Budget... We really should have set one, but we are passing $75k and didnt do honeymoon, tips, all that other little crap! makes me want to VOMIT!
WeddingGem Posted:

Re: What's your total budget??


Posted by jcreilly


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by Sarahgetsmarried

Lets see:

Dress (includes veil, shoes, alterations etc)
$4,000

Reception- $45,000
Flowers $12,000
Band $12,000
Music $1200
Limo $1200
Misc $800
Gifts $1,000
Hotel $1,200
Tux $free (grooms is free rental)
photog $4000
Video$2,500
Honeymoon-$10,000

With stuff im sure I forgot (between tipping etc)

About $90,000- $100,000


wish i had ur budget


HOLY crap I wish I had your budget



definitely!! With a budget like that the possibilities are endless!!!! But I´m happy for Sarahgetsmarried not envious at all (I was looking for a little envious face but can´t find it!!) j/k
DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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$25K-$30K. I refuse to go over $30 bc I want to buy a house in 2011.

JJC Posted:

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well....we just paid for things as we went and never charged anything...didnt want to be in wedding debt...afterwords we added EVERYTHING we spent from attire to favors to hm....all things related to the wedding...$56k

iquel Posted:

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Our budget is 30K -40K, we are not done with booking yet.
Flordelisa Posted:

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between 25-30K. me and FH are mostly paying for everything and I wish to keep it low.

laurendaqt Posted:

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im hoping under 50k... im not done booking everything but sometimes when i know what i want i want it and wont stop until i get it..... :)

dec21bride Posted:

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Such a waste of money! Girls think wisely. It is 5 hours of one night that trust me goes by in the blink of an eye. U can have a wonderful and elegant wedding for much less. Cut your guest lists to people who really only matter and people you keep in contact with, cut back on stupid favors that are just more junk and clutter that no one needs or wants in there home, cut the chair covers to match your wedding colors, cut the huge cocktail and venetian hours. In the long run none of this matters. Everything adds up. I saved greatly because I bought my headpiece and veil on ebay for 20 bucks, my flower girl baskets, guest books/pen, money holder, garder all for 40 bucks. Once again its 1 night to which you will never use the stuff again nor will you ever probably look at it more than 5 times in your lifetime and that is alot. I did not do the chair covers it is not necessary. cocktail hour i did not do i had drinks and hour devours served but no extensive cocktail hour that saved me a bunch. There are ways to get around spending 20 and over for your wedding. The bottom line is all this money for one night which goes by in the blink of an eye when u can use that money for a home down payment you way which means more or a start to a fund for a home one day it really makes a difference. Not to mention more than half of marriage fail in the first 5 years. Just being realistic here. I was married in December and trust me the night was over before I could even get to enjoy it.

WeddingGem Posted:

Re: What's your total budget??


Posted by dec21bride

Such a waste of money! Girls think wisely. It is 5 hours of one night that trust me goes by in the blink of an eye. U can have a wonderful and elegant wedding for much less. Cut your guest lists to people who really only matter and people you keep in contact with, cut back on stupid favors that are just more junk and clutter that no one needs or wants in there home, cut the chair covers to match your wedding colors, cut the huge cocktail and venetian hours. In the long run none of this matters. Everything adds up. I saved greatly because I bought my headpiece and veil on ebay for 20 bucks, my flower girl baskets, guest books/pen, money holder, garder all for 40 bucks. Once again its 1 night to which you will never use the stuff again nor will you ever probably look at it more than 5 times in your lifetime and that is alot. I did not do the chair covers it is not necessary. cocktail hour i did not do i had drinks and hour devours served but no extensive cocktail hour that saved me a bunch. There are ways to get around spending 20 and over for your wedding. The bottom line is all this money for one night which goes by in the blink of an eye when u can use that money for a home down payment you way which means more or a start to a fund for a home one day it really makes a difference. Not to mention more than half of marriage fail in the first 5 years. Just being realistic here. I was married in December and trust me the night was over before I could even get to enjoy it.



just sent you an fm.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by drivwal

under $17,000




me too
MrsDR2010 Posted:

Re: What's your total budget??


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by Sarahgetsmarried

Lets see:

Dress (includes veil, shoes, alterations etc)
$4,000

Reception- $45,000
Flowers $12,000
Band $12,000
Music $1200
Limo $1200
Misc $800
Gifts $1,000
Hotel $1,200
Tux $free (grooms is free rental)
photog $4000
Video$2,500
Honeymoon-$10,000

With stuff im sure I forgot (between tipping etc)

About $90,000- $100,000


wish i had ur budget




Me too
MrsDR2010 Posted:

Re: What's your total budget??


Posted by dec21bride

Such a waste of money! Girls think wisely. It is 5 hours of one night that trust me goes by in the blink of an eye. U can have a wonderful and elegant wedding for much less. Cut your guest lists to people who really only matter and people you keep in contact with, cut back on stupid favors that are just more junk and clutter that no one needs or wants in there home, cut the chair covers to match your wedding colors, cut the huge cocktail and venetian hours. In the long run none of this matters. Everything adds up. I saved greatly because I bought my headpiece and veil on ebay for 20 bucks, my flower girl baskets, guest books/pen, money holder, garder all for 40 bucks. Once again its 1 night to which you will never use the stuff again nor will you ever probably look at it more than 5 times in your lifetime and that is alot. I did not do the chair covers it is not necessary. cocktail hour i did not do i had drinks and hour devours served but no extensive cocktail hour that saved me a bunch. There are ways to get around spending 20 and over for your wedding. The bottom line is all this money for one night which goes by in the blink of an eye when u can use that money for a home down payment you way which means more or a start to a fund for a home one day it really makes a difference. Not to mention more than half of marriage fail in the first 5 years. Just being realistic here. I was married in December and trust me the night was over before I could even get to enjoy it.




Didn't you post on anotherr thread about this and get blasted already...come on now. That is your opinion. You don't know anyone's budget so you can't just come out and say its a waste of money. Most girls dream of this day from a little girl so they want to make it a reality. Obviously you think its a waste but others might not so just be mindful of that when you post on every thread having to do with money

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