when do i...

mrsq2be Posted: Apr 02, 2011 03:57 PM

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call people that didn't RSVP?
our rsvp date is today...

and we are missing 86 people!!!!!!

it annoys me that about 45 of them are family members.... i really didn't think it was hard to put a pre postaged postcard in the mail!
but anyway - when should i start calling? my mom wants to start monday lol but i dont know... what if people just put it in the mail today? would it be rude to call them monday?

spdy540 Posted: Apr 02, 2011 04:17 PM

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I would give it another if they are not in by then I was definitely start calling

Soon2bMrsB91511 Posted: Apr 02, 2011 04:43 PM

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I'd give it till 1 week from today. People are SO freakin irresponsible, its unrealllll...

IrishAli Posted: Apr 02, 2011 05:03 PM

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I'd start before next weekend....if they mailed it today, you should have it by Wednesday....so I'd start calling Wednesday

mrsq2be Posted: Apr 02, 2011 05:55 PM

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thats what I was thinking too - i shoudl ahve them all by wednesday if they mailed them today. ok. I didn't wanna seem as if i was jumping down these peoples throats asking them haha

thanks girls!

pjc92980 Posted: Apr 02, 2011 06:32 PM

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you have plenty of time! i mean yes people should have def responded by now since that was the date you requested...but typically the RSVP date is 4-6 weeks before the wedding. I would say wait til the week of the 10th

mrsq2be Posted: Apr 02, 2011 07:32 PM

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yeah but my head count is also due 2 weeks before the wedding - normally its 3 days to a week...

Im getting Married Posted: Apr 02, 2011 07:37 PM

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I would start calling Monday, since some might have put it in the mail today

Thar1127 Posted: Apr 02, 2011 07:40 PM

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Ughh annoying!!

FutureJOC Posted: Apr 02, 2011 07:41 PM

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Ours was Thursday. We were missing about 18-20 cards. I waited until the mail was delievered that day and anyone we were missing, I started texting and emailing for responses. We just got the last of our repsonses today with the exception of one response which FMIL is going to find out by Monday.

If you want to not start calling today than you can def. start calling tomorrow.

JTG4EVER Posted: Apr 02, 2011 07:54 PM

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I would say Thursday. Because they could realize this weekend and put it in the mail Monday. So give it until Thursday. Plus you don't want to call 80 people! So maybe you will get a few and have to call less