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When do I give the BM

Ivori Posted:

When do I give the BM

their t shirts or hoodies. I am not sure when to give them these things. If I wait when I give them their other gifts it would be to late. I was thinking maybe at my shower but not sure. Any help would be appreciated. TIA

cookiemonster Posted:

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are you having a rehearsal dinner the day before or some other time before the wedding? that's when i've usually received gifts when i was a BM. if you give it to them then, they can wear them when they're getting ready with you on the day of!

hmpena Posted:

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I tried to plan a BMs dinner for us, which is when I wanted to give them their presents. Unfortunately, they used the dinner as a way to get me to my shower. So they received their presents at my shower.

imas98 Posted:

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I'm giving my BM's their spa gift certificates at my shower....i want them to have the time to decide what treatments they want & be able to make appointments for the wedding weekend. I'll give them the rest of their gifts at the RD.

Ivori Posted:

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Thanks for your help. I think I will give it to them at my shower this way they can where it when we go out to dinner that I plan on doing as well for them.

NY031978 Posted:

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either shower if u know when it is.....or sooner so they can get use out of it! Maybe do a lunch w. them?

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