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When Do You Give Your BP Their Gfts??

FlowerBride Posted:

When Do You Give Your BP Their Gfts??

I want to give the girls in my party personalize hoodies and personalized shirts to the RB and flower girl. In most of the weddings Ive been in - we get gifts the night before @ the rehersal dinner.
But I kind of want to give them just these gifts now - kinda of thanking them for the help so far and for just being in the party.
Also I want them to get use out of them since it's getting chilly out.
Now I have a small bridal party with my mom as the MOH, 3 BMs, 1 JR BM, a ring bearer and a flower girl. I am sure they are set in stone unless something extremely unexpected happened.
So.. should I go ahead and order the stuff and give it to them for Christmas?? Or should I be traditional and wait until the RD to give them all of their gifts at once? I plan on getting them more stuff but I though that this would be a good teaser..
Opinions? TIA
Marly Posted:

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I'm giving my BP their gifts at the RD.
ant n tilde Posted:

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i think thats a nice idea - give it to them now

i would be so sad if i got something cool like that and i could only wear it for a week or two!!

and then get them a little something at the rehearsal dinner. i think thats fine!
JassyandOscar Posted:

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It would be a cute teaser - but I am giving my gifts at the RD. I did send each BM and MOHs a thank you card with a little charm.

JIFFY Posted:

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i'm with you. I don't want to wait until the RD but it seems like that is what is going to have to happen in my situation bc of oot ers in the BP.

onelove1 Posted:

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I'm going to wait until the rehersal dinner. I already gave the girls bridesmaid shirts etc.

FlowerBride Posted:

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ok i think im gonna do this for their christmas presents and then give the rest of their gifts at RD.. thanks for the input!!

bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

i think thats a nice idea - give it to them now

i would be so sad if i got something cool like that and i could only wear it for a week or two!!

and then get them a little something at the rehearsal dinner. i think thats fine!



I agree. Give it to them on Christmas so they have something to show off and then a little something at the RD.
chrissyandvin Posted:

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I am doing it at the RD!
kitty1224 Posted:

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REHEARSAL DINNER

Soon2bMrsI Posted:

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at the RD... that seems like the most appropriate time!

Mooshyboo Posted:

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Hi I was planning on the rehersal dinner but now that you gave this suggestion I might do the same! (I have already started with my BM gifts and it is killing me not to give to them now!) I am not sure if I can wait that lonnnnnng!
TnOiOnL Posted:

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Im doing gifts at RD...
It's nice that you want to give tem something now, only thing is that you mght want to buy something ELSE to give at the RD since its tradition and they'll probably expect something. It might end up being very expensive if you do it that way, but if you can afford it, go for it!!!
Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted:

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at the RD

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