when should I...........

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Posted by MegBert

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Posted by mdawg

why dont you say you just want a sister day? maybe go shopping first or something... get your nails done?? i dunno...do something really girly (i am SO not really girly so i dont know what else to say)... and then like decide to go out to dinner just the two of you and then ask her.

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I just peed my pants..we dont have sister days...i'm lucky to see her 2 times a month like ships passing....get our nails done together it will end in a fight over where to go lol...!!!

Thanks for the advice i already tried to ask her to dinner and she threw him in and then we never went....

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so then why is she your MOH? lol. im so confused!

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Posted by MegBert

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Posted by mdawg

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Posted by MegBert

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Posted by mdawg

why dont you say you just want a sister day? maybe go shopping first or something... get your nails done?? i dunno...do something really girly (i am SO not really girly so i dont know what else to say)... and then like decide to go out to dinner just the two of you and then ask her.

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I just peed my pants..we dont have sister days...i'm lucky to see her 2 times a month like ships passing....get our nails done together it will end in a fight over where to go lol...!!!

Thanks for the advice i already tried to ask her to dinner and she threw him in and then we never went....

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so then why is she your MOH? lol. im so confused!

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lol because once she decides to grow up we might be closer and then id regret not asking her...I am going to lunch with her sunday so maybe ill ask her then

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If shes the way you say she is, you might actually end up regretting that you DID make her MOH

FBIL gave us good advice... Dont put anyone in your bridal party because you feel you have an obligation to... He didnt expect us to put him and his sister in it... He flat out told us.... just have your close friends, dont worry about matching #'s or having everyone & their mother in the party...

Thats when I told him I wanted his daughter in the party as a jr BM and he was content with that

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Posted by MegBert

i agree but regardless of anything I love my sister and couldnt imagine not giving her the title..it would be foolish of me not to...lol but yea i have no friends so my whole bridal party is family

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I have really no girl friends either!!! All my super close friends will be standing on FH's side ARGGGG So I will be including my cousin and like 2 other girls most likely... and have 2 GM for every 1 BM.. And I have no family really so my cousin is the only one... No siblings either

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by MegBert

i agree but regardless of anything I love my sister and couldnt imagine not giving her the title..it would be foolish of me not to...lol but yea i have no friends so my whole bridal party is family

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I have really no girl friends either!!! All my super close friends will be standing on FH's side ARGGGG So I will be including my cousin and like 2 other girls most likely... and have 2 GM for every 1 BM.. And I have no family really so my cousin is the only one... No siblings either

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OMG that is soo me too!!! I have always been better friends with guys.... I tried to convice my FH to have some of the guys stand on my side.... didnt work out though!!!!

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

FBIL gave us good advice... Dont put anyone in your bridal party because you feel you have an obligation to... He didnt expect us to put him and his sister in it... He flat out told us.... just have your close friends, dont worry about matching #'s or having everyone & their mother in the party...

Thats when I told him I wanted his daughter in the party as a jr BM and he was content with that

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Thats so hard which is why I'm ending up with 22 people when I really only want 6

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Posted by Soon2bmrsP

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

FBIL gave us good advice... Dont put anyone in your bridal party because you feel you have an obligation to... He didnt expect us to put him and his sister in it... He flat out told us.... just have your close friends, dont worry about matching #'s or having everyone & their mother in the party...

Thats when I told him I wanted his daughter in the party as a jr BM and he was content with that

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Thats so hard which is why I'm ending up with 22 people when I really only want 6

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22 WoWWWWW Thank god I could never have that big... I figured the less people the better so that its easier to get everyone to agree on something like colors, dresses and suits

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by Soon2bmrsP

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

FBIL gave us good advice... Dont put anyone in your bridal party because you feel you have an obligation to... He didnt expect us to put him and his sister in it... He flat out told us.... just have your close friends, dont worry about matching #'s or having everyone & their mother in the party...

Thats when I told him I wanted his daughter in the party as a jr BM and he was content with that

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Thats so hard which is why I'm ending up with 22 people when I really only want 6

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22 WoWWWWW Thank god I could never have that big... I figured the less people the better so that its easier to get everyone to agree on something like colors, dresses and suits

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I know its hard to say no, I hate that people ask to be in it or assume they are in it