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when should you send out the STD?
sinead536
Posted: Sep 15, 2014 06:45 PM+

Posted: Sep 15, 2014 06:45 PM
when should you send out the STD?
ahhh after reading so many forums I am nervous my std are too late. My wedding is 5/24/15. My engagement pics are oct 9th and want to wait to use them. So my std won't be going out until early nov. Is that too late?
killerqueen
Posted: Sep 15, 2014 11:15 PM+

Posted: Sep 15, 2014 11:15 PM
when should you send out the STD?
I'm sending mine out this week and my wedding is in April. I think a lot of it depends on how many people you think will be traveling from far and need to make accommodations. I feel like as long as you get them out by 6 months you're fine.
sinead536
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 07:05 AM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 07:05 AM
when should you send out the STD?
Thanks :). As soon as my pics come in I'm going to get them out ASAP
okellies
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 09:58 AM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 09:58 AM
when should you send out the STD?
I think the rule of thumb is 6-10 months? I am going to be ordering my STDs today and I have around the same date as you.
BOUSA312
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 10:25 AM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 10:25 AM
when should you send out the STD?
I am only 2 weeks after you and I haven't even really thought about save the dates yet! But November seems like plenty of time that's still a good 6 months before!
CAlbanese
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 10:46 AM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 10:46 AM
when should you send out the STD?
I was freaking out too but I'm sending mine 6 months in advance. I think that's plenty of time.
HesLIgirl
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 02:01 PM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 02:01 PM
when should you send out the STD?
Ours will probably go out in mid-late Oct (engagement pics are tomorrow!!). I think it's just a technicality, so I wouldn't worry about it. The people that really matter already know (and have the wedding on their calendar). It's just a fun thing to send out, I woudn't worry at all!
FutureMrsPonce
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 02:03 PM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 02:03 PM
when should you send out the STD?
I'm getting married the same day as you and I'm sending them out next week. I would recommend getting everyone's address ready before hand and when you receive them you could mail them immediately. Depending on where you're ordering from maybe you could receive the envelopes earlier and preprint them to save some time.
Lisa715
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 04:33 PM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 04:33 PM
when should you send out the STD?
My wedding is in July, and I am sending them out by the end of the this week. The only reason I am doing it so early, is because we have a summer wedding. This way people don't plan a vacation on my wedding day
Sarahg9
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 07:20 PM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 07:20 PM
when should you send out the STD?
Mine went out last week and my wedding is the same day as yours. I wanted to get mine out early because we have a lot of people traveling. I wouldn't worry too much!
sinead536
Posted: Sep 16, 2014 08:19 PM+

Posted: Sep 16, 2014 08:19 PM
when should you send out the STD?
Thanks everyone! Will make sure I have everything ready to go so when they come in I will get them out within 24 hours :0) Can't wait for engagement pics!!
ndc923
Posted: Sep 21, 2014 05:03 PM+

Posted: Sep 21, 2014 05:03 PM
Re: when should you send out the STD?
I think ideally they should be sent out within the one year mark, but given the actual invitation goes out so close to the wedding, I don't think it's too late and better late than never. Don't stress it
Bride2Be1023
Posted: Sep 22, 2014 06:47 AM+

Posted: Sep 22, 2014 06:47 AM
when should you send out the STD?
I am hoping to get ours out by the 1 year mark. I really want to make sure everyone is there- but we may not get them out until about 10 months before the wedding because we haven't even definitely booked a photographer to do our engagement pictures yet!
KristenRosa
Posted: Sep 22, 2014 06:55 PM+

Posted: Sep 22, 2014 06:55 PM
when should you send out the STD?
I got mine out at the 10 month mark. Most people knew the date already but I just wanted to make sure they would actually save the date by seeing it. Even if it is cutting it close, at least your guests can save the date a few months before the invitations get sent out. And like someone said above, get the addresses and everything before hand!
booie135
Posted: Sep 23, 2014 08:43 AM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2014 08:43 AM
when should you send out the STD?
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