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When to send RD invites

Bride908 Posted:

When to send RD invites

When are you guys sending out RD invites if you are doing them. I was thinking a month but maybe I should give more notice??

Shelly9697 Posted:

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I still have to do mine, I was planning on 1 month but it will be a little less!!

jessnstu08 Posted:

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I just ordered mine, but I wont sent them out until about a month before the date

smplynluv Posted:

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I sent mine like 2-3 weeks before. We were only inviting the ppl in the bridal party, the readers and their families. But I kinda gave a verbal heads-up to those I saw ahead of time.

08JulyBride Posted:

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I mailed mine 2 weeks before but its only BP & immediate family going and they already knew the 'when' and just needed to know the 'where'
futuremrsfab Posted:

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We are sending them out about 2-3 weeks before, but we sent the bridal party an update recently and told them the date so that they could take off from work if they needed to or what not.

emomma17 Posted:

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We are going to send ours in September, probably 3 weeks before or so.

roan126 Posted:

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I think one month is fine. My MIL sent them out right after I sent out the invites (about 8 weeks before) and it was too soon. I think people forgot about it...she hardly got any responses. We had to call people at the last minute to see if they were coming or not.

KK Holiday Posted:

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the place i'm holding the dinner needs our final count 2 weeks in advance...so I'm having a 9/1 rsvp date (RD is 9/18) and mailing the invitations 8/1

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted:

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The only people coming to ours are immediate family - FH and I, our parents, FH's 4 grandparents, my sister and her hubby and their daughter, and FH's brother, possibly another if he has a date. So I am wondering if we even need to send invites??? I would just buy some at a stationary store if I did send them ... and I would send them Oct 4 probably, 3 weeks in advance ... everyone is coming though so I don't need to worry about rsvps.

MrsHtobe Posted:

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

The only people coming to ours are immediate family - FH and I, our parents, FH's 4 grandparents, my sister and her hubby and their daughter, and FH's brother, possibly another if he has a date. So I am wondering if we even need to send invites??? I would just buy some at a stationary store if I did send them ... and I would send them Oct 4 probably, 3 weeks in advance ... everyone is coming though so I don't need to worry about rsvps.



I don't think they are really necessary. I plan on doing them, but you don't have to. Most people know about it anyway
Costabeba Posted:

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wow i wasnt even thinking of sending out invites, do I have to? I was just thinkin of telling my fam and wedding party...... Is that tacky????

Madorie Posted:

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Posted by Costabeba

wow i wasnt even thinking of sending out invites, do I have to? I was just thinkin of telling my fam and wedding party...... Is that tacky????



Why not just get little invitations at Hallmark or something?

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