When would you go ballistic...
Though really, is there EVER an appropriate time to go ape-shiz on a church lady?
FH's church does not organize the rehearsals through the secretaries that work there daily. Instead, we have to independently call up the organist, who also acts as the rehearsal coordinator, to set it up. Apparently, she is notorious for taking forever and a day to return the phone calls.
So I called about a month ago, and she was at work, so I left a message with someone in the house, who told me she would call me that night. Well, a week and a half went by, and nothing.
So I called back....once again, she wasn't home, left a message with someone at the house, who said that she would call me back that night.
That was 2 weeks ago.
Now FH's mother was going to get involved, and tell the priest himself when he was at their house last week, but then decided against it because she felt funny to rat her out, and it's not the priest's problem. I disagree, and think it's absolutely the priest's problem, he should know that this is happening so they can change the way their rehearsals are handled!
So she said instead she was going to call herself and say who she was, since she is well known in the church, and might make more headway than me (the xena LOL). But she hasn't done it yet, and the procrastinating apple didn't fall far from the tree, so....
What should I do? Try calling one more time, but at night to try to catch her? Call the church and make a big stink, even though they can't do anything about it?
Short of showing up at the woman's doorstep, I don't know what to do!
FH's church does not organize the rehearsals through the secretaries that work there daily. Instead, we have to independently call up the organist, who also acts as the rehearsal coordinator, to set it up. Apparently, she is notorious for taking forever and a day to return the phone calls.
So I called about a month ago, and she was at work, so I left a message with someone in the house, who told me she would call me that night. Well, a week and a half went by, and nothing.
So I called back....once again, she wasn't home, left a message with someone at the house, who said that she would call me back that night.
That was 2 weeks ago.
Now FH's mother was going to get involved, and tell the priest himself when he was at their house last week, but then decided against it because she felt funny to rat her out, and it's not the priest's problem. I disagree, and think it's absolutely the priest's problem, he should know that this is happening so they can change the way their rehearsals are handled!
So she said instead she was going to call herself and say who she was, since she is well known in the church, and might make more headway than me (the xena LOL). But she hasn't done it yet, and the procrastinating apple didn't fall far from the tree, so....
What should I do? Try calling one more time, but at night to try to catch her? Call the church and make a big stink, even though they can't do anything about it?
Short of showing up at the woman's doorstep, I don't know what to do!
