WHEN YOU SEE THOSE LITTLE ENVELOPES/POSTCARDS IN YOUR MAILBOX AND START OPENING THEM BEING SUPRISED BY THE ONES THAT DONT PUT A RETURN ADDRESS SO YOUR WONDERING WHO IT IS....THEN YOU OPEN IT AND IT SAYS 'WILL NOT ATTEND'
OKAY ITS SOMEONE YOU JUST KNEW WOULDNT MISS IT FOR THE WORLD AND THEY ARENT COMING.....I GET A FUNNY FEELING IN MY STOMACH ESPECIALLY WHEN I TRY TO MAKE MOST OF THEIR ENGAGEMENTS.....ONE OF MY MOMS 6 SISTERS ISNT COMING BUT I UNDERSTAND, MY UNCLE IS VERY SICK WITH A BREATHING DISORDER AND WOULD NEED TO TRAVEL WITH O2 TANKS ETC...I UNDERSTAND I AM GOING TO MISS HER BUT I WOULD RATHER HER NOT COME AND NOT BE ABLE TO ENJOY HERSELF....
HOW DO YOU FEEL WHEN THIS HAPPENS AND ITS SOMEONE SPECIAL AND NOT A BACK UP INVITE?
milana
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so far i havent recieved a no from someone that i thought was really going to come. However half of our guests still havent RSVP'ed yet so it may happen. But i could only imagine how hurt i would feel if that was the case! Im so sorry, but it seems she cant come due to a serious circumstance that is not in her hands. If her husband wasnt so sick im sure she would be there with you!
poogie
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so far i havent recieved a no from someone that i thought was really going to come. However half of guests still havent RSVP'ed but i could only imagine how hurt i would feel! Im so sorry, in weddings we really learn who our true friends are
EXACTLY i in weddings we really learn who our true friends are
THIS IS SO TRUE ONE OF MY GOOD FRIENDS HAS A DAUGHTER ...HER ONLY CHILD...GRADUATING FROM HIGH SCHOOL THAT DAY AND I CANT EVEN IMAGINE ASKING HER TO FIGURE IT ALL OUT....SHE WANTS TO BE IN BOTH PLACES AND SHE SAID TO ME ON FRI...BOTH EVENTS ARE IMPORTANT TO HER...SINCE WE HAVE CRIED ON EACHOTHERS SHOULDERS MANY OF DAY NIGHTS, EVES, OVER THE PHONE ETC......THATS A FRIEND...SHE IS COMING WITH HER DAUGHTER AS HER GUEST...AFTER I GET ALL THE 'NOS' I AM GOING TO TELLHER TO BRING HER HUSBAND TOO.
ejm1219
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Ok FH thinks I am nuts but I am not going to lie, I think I will feel a little relieved! We started out not sure if we could make our minimum of 120 and somehow we have 200 on our list! It is too much and I am hoping a lot of them won't come but my FH mother said that a bunch of his relatives are coming from PR that we thought were originally no's and my mom just keeps adding people!!!! I will be sad if the people I really want (my close family and friends) won't be able to come but most of them are coming!!! ahhh!!!