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When your parents are paying for the wedding

mmm117 Posted:

When your parents are paying for the wedding

I am so lucky to have my parents paying for the lion's share of our wedding day. I want to get them a nice gift to thank them for all that they have done. I know that there is no magic number, but I have no clue what to spend on this gift. Anyone else in a similar boat care to share their thoughts? Thanks!

mdawg Posted:

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when i was engaged, I was in this situation. I was going to send them on their own second honeymoon to somewhere nice. I hadn't started researching, but I had a budget of about $2,000 - $3,000.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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im in that situation... it'll be my parents 30th anny the month after our wedding so i'd like to send them on a trip somewhere....

MOG0809 Posted:

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I am the MOG. My husband and I are splitting the cost of the wedding with the brides family. We are doing this so our children have more money to start their new with. I will miss having my son at home, so if they wanted to thank us, I would love a meal at their new home. Or you could even treat your parents out to dinner. If you feel you need to do more---- do it once a week for a year!

mmm117 Posted:

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Thanks everyone! I really appreciate your responses

Almostawife Posted:

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Posted by MOG0809

I am the MOG. My husband and I are splitting the cost of the wedding with the brides family. We are doing this so our children have more money to start their new with. I will miss having my son at home, so if they wanted to thank us, I would love a meal at their new home. Or you could even treat your parents out to dinner. If you feel you need to do more---- do it once a week for a year!



That sounds great. I am in the same boat and the last thing my parents need is anything expensive from us. I would like to give them something as a token of appreciation. Any other thing you can think of as a token?
springsandra Posted:

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I think my dad would be PISSED if I spent major money on something for him and my step-mom, considering they can always do whatever they want (which is why I'm lucky enough to have him helping with the expenses).

I think I need a special more personal idea for something for my dad. I've gotta work on this... thanks for reminding me!
Almostawife Posted:

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Posted by springsandra

I think my dad would be PISSED if I spent major money on something for him and my step-mom, considering they can always do whatever they want (which is why I'm lucky enough to have him helping with the expenses).

I think I need a special more personal idea for something for my dad. I've gotta work on this... thanks for reminding me!



ditto..let me know if you think of anything.
MLAngelo Posted:

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My mom and dad would be upset if we spent a lot. They are throwing us a wedding to help us out with life. I am trying to think more about something that is personal for them and our relationships.

Watever143 Posted:

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We actually just brouight my dad a tv stadn for his new falt screen I know he really wanted one but dont have so much extra money around bc he is paying for most of the wedding. My mom I plan on getting the lenox figurine on mother and daugther and then probably pay for her makeup and hair for the day of.

allegracristina Posted:

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We are giving my dad a new camera, which he really needs and hopefully will love! We're not 100% sure what we're getting for my mom yet.

ttdiff11 Posted:

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Posted by allegracristina

We are giving my dad a new camera, which he really needs and hopefully will love! We're not 100% sure what we're getting for my mom yet.




oo thats a good idea, my mom needs one!!
Sweeteey51 Posted:

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Send them on a cruise.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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We got my parents and FHs parents (who are both paying for the wedding) new computers...they both needed them badly!

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