Where are my DREAM THREAD partners?

Are you ladies around?
For the past couple days my dreams are ridiculous

Night before yesterday - it was the WORST. Seemed to last all night - really felt like 3 nights worth of dreams.....

But I must've had 5 dreams that night, and I kept going back and forth from dream to dream.

To make a VERY long story short, in one night I dreamt:

I was in Iraq fighting terrorists. I was actually with GUN in hand !!!! At one point I got scared, and hid behind the uniforms which were like big Tent like dresses of other fighters.

Haggled with and Iraq civilian for the price of a new puppy (yorkie)
He wanted $900 - I haggled for $600 but with $150 deposit. All along, hiding from the people trying to shoot me.

Went to Haiti (my parents born there) to help out some relatives, and help them to live better lives - helped clean their house and gave them money, etc. .
The lady that lived there - who was faceless but I felt it was ME....... had like 3 children - lived w/the father, but not married - totally loveless
Fell in love with a new man - and was finally happy.
He left her house to go get his things to move in I suppose......
On the way home, his EX girlfriend or wife is hidden in the back of his jeep and tries to KILL him by shooting him and in doing so his head falls off but he is still alive, blood and gust spilling everywhere - VERY graphic

Later on, he is still alive. Doctors have managed to SEW his head back on, but his face is severly damaged and you can't even tell it's him, it's like his whole face peeled off so he has to wear a mask.

He goes back to the lady in love (me) and I accept him anyway, and kiss his face - this was not a pretty sight and declare I don't need him to wear the mask even though he's deformed

Later on, since the lady (me) is finally happy, we, meaning me, my brother, sister, lover. . .
are all killed when a bomb hits the house.

W T F is a dream like that about?

Oh and to top it all off, another intertwining dream during the night is I'm at work, and scheming against the big boss with my immediate boss

This was all in ONE night and I kept going in and out of the different dreams. So I would start dream 1, go to dream 2, and 3, then pop into dream 1 again.
It was crazy.
WHen I woke up, I felt like I had literally been at war...........


ETA: I forgot, one more dream from that same night:

At one point, I was back in America it seemed, but I was part of a missionary. And I was to recruit more americans to go out of the country with me to do missionary work (didnt specify where).
But aparantely it was 'undecover' missionary work, so I had to pretend NOT to be American. They said I might even have to marry a Muslim to make sure I looked 'real'

WHat is all this about????????????????

Wow.

Girl, I wish I could tell you what that's about! I have a lot of very similar dreams and unfortunatley I've never been able to interpret them.

Thanks
At least I'm not alone. It was just frustrating. I felt like I got absolutely no sleep.
Last night I kept waking up in a sweat. And this was just for some ridiculous dream - a wedding nightmare. But my wedding was in May already and it was great

Well im not specialist but here's my analysis take it for what it is.

A) you love your hubby something awful. You'd be a wreck if anything ever happened to him. Maybe with bad weather you've been a little more concerned for his safety or he's been sick and you've been worried a little? All that I'll take you as you are... past, present and future shows some major dedicate. hence his face and head thing (gory or not it was Strong) and you still loved him.

B) You having kids without him in your dream, may mean you have your own 'luggage' and your hubby saw through it all even tho you may have felt it was something he might have rejected you for. He loved you every bit as much as you he, the whole package.

C) Why Haiti? It's home its where you probably feel most comfortable. It sets the backdrop. (PS I gotta GREAT friend of mine who's Haitian.. you girls got nerves of steel! and you don't mess around with love!)

D) Why the whole family die in a horrible bomb with you and your husband and 3 children? hrmm.. home sick lately? Is your family close to you (physically)? I think prehaps you'd rather die with them then to die without them.. or for them to die without you. Totally understandable.

Ok,,.... there's my amature break out.

WOW - what an analysis

I tell you, after reading that, I don't care if you're on point or not, it makes total sense to me and makes me feel so much better

You may have something when you say I don't want to die w/o my family.....
In my last dream when I died my hubby, and siblings died with me then also........

Maybe b/c since the wedding I've had this internal conflict on family vs. hubby b/c I'm so close to my family. Who do I give more time. Maybe that's why they all come together in my dreams.

I do worry about hubby all the time, I love him like crazy. I would literally be done if anything happenned to him.

Thanks

PS - You're on point about us Hatian girls too

Well I totally relate on the family thing.

I hope you sleep well!

I keep dreaming about my 'what-if' guy and it's driving me CRAZY!!!!!

ARe you dreaming about him b/c of the thread the other day

I hope you BOTH sleep well tonight and that the rain doesn't mess with us

Nope, been dreaming about him since highh school... ugh

Do you still feel like you need closure perhaps? Maybe you need to face him and get it over with.
Once you have closure, I'd imagine the dreams would stop, no?

I could tell you stories about things I did to try to find one 'what-if' guy.
I was ridiculous. Then one day, out of the blue, I just didn't need to anymore.
I've been fine since.

Did you date or no?

It was one of those things were I liked him but he had a girlfriend, then he liked me but I had a boyfriend, off and on for years. We had a pretty intense connection for high schoolers, even back then we used to dream about each other. I wonder if he ever dreams about me still.

It better go away someday soon! Makes me feel so BAD....

Liz,

WOW Those are bizzare dreams! Can I tell you though, I was LMAO here at work and people were looking at me like I was nuts!

Okay, seriously, I'v had some convoluted crazy dreams in the past couple of years. My aunt who is really good at interpreting them would probaby tell you that it partly due to stress. I agree with Xelindrya on some of her analysis which was pretty good.

You are carrying a lot right now - merging two families, making time for friends as well as family, work, school, thinking of ttc - girl your plate is full. Sometimes when we are over scheduled and lot is going on at one time, our mind tend to distort things. Your mind can take regular things going on in your life and distort it in your dream.

Also, do you eat before you go to bed? That sometimes makes us have nightmares. Don't worry everything is okay!

Don't feel bad. You're only HUMAN. As long as your HEART is where it should be.

When you're awake, do you have feelings for him?

Nah, I just can't stop thinking about the dream. Usually they are reunion type dreams... I see him and we get all excited and hug each other and stuff. LOL, I am such a loser!

Tracy, isn't that crazy?
But you are right, I do have a lot on my plate. It's crazy I try to handle everything at once too. Tomorrow I start my next class at school................

Maybe the part of the dream about the puppy came from me hanging around your doggie

You're right - you were around Sketch for a a while!! You and Len thinking about a dog??

Liz I think you're a worry wort! You need some downtime inbetween all that's happening - remember to take time for yourself!

Lunatrek, you are not a psycho - you are HUMAN !!!!!!!!!!!

Don't even worry about it, the more you do, the more you'll dream.

As long as you know that you love your hubby that's what matters.

Reunion dreams are OK