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WHERE TO BEGIN And how to organize

Loriane2010 Posted:

WHERE TO BEGIN And how to organize

Good Morning, Ladies

So I am really STRESS I am working long hours and I am in a prep class. Is there a website or a list I can follow for the steps I need to do for my wedding day. My wedding is in 6 months, and so far all I did was book a venue. I am not ready to try on dresses, I haven't really did a guest list, I did pick my bridemaid, and I am tired of going to vendors.

I didn't know planning a wedding, can be so stressful, and time consuming. My FH is not into any of this, all he says is, 'where should I stand when I get there '

I feel like I just need a check list, or list of steps of what to do. Maybe I can follow them. It is so sad, they say, this is suppose to be a happy time. But it is becoming a stressful time. Sometimes, I just feel like not doing it anything. My parents and family is so excited, since I am the baby. So I want to make it work, and do something for them. Because the Justice of the Peace is looking, like a good idea right now.
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

Re: WHERE TO BEGIN And how to organize


Posted by Loriane2010

Good Morning, Ladies

So I am really STRESS I am working long hours and I am in a prep class. Is there a website or a list I can follow for the steps I need to do for my wedding day. My wedding is in 6 months, and so far all I did was book a venue. I am not ready to try on dresses, I haven't really did a guest list, I did pick my bridemaid, and I am tired of going to vendors.

I didn't know planning a wedding, can be so stressful, and time consuming. My FH is not into any of this, all he says is, 'where should I stand when I get there '

I feel like I just need a check list, or list of steps of what to do. Maybe I can follow them. It is so sad, they say, this is suppose to be a happy time. But it is becoming a stressful time. Sometimes, I just feel like not doing it anything. My parents and family is so excited, since I am the baby. So I want to make it work, and do something for them. Because the Justice of the Peace is looking, like a good idea right now.



There are sites that have a checklist, there is a checklist here too but according to those sites you might be a little behind...

Here's my suggestion for a start. You should give yourself one goal at a time. like do a few things by the end of October and then move on... It is overwhelming at first, but you definitely can do it on your own and with family. ASK THEM FOR HELP.

Start with:
Officiant
Dress
DJ

allornil Posted:

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hi and welcome!

if you look at the top of this page theres a tab for 'my wedding'

click on that. it has lots of tools. timeline has lots of steps to follow. :)
FutureMrsPanuch Posted:

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Posted by allornil

hi and welcome!

if you look at the top of this page theres a tab for 'my wedding'

click on that. it has lots of tools. timeline has lots of steps to follow. :)



this is what i have been working off of too... its really helpful.... the knot has a great check list too
FutureMrsDe Posted:

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you may want to look into a coordinator. you have a lot to do in 6 months !

DCgirl82 Posted:

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Aww dont stress! Weddings are a lot of work and planning but well worth it There is a checklist on here for you to use and also I got a Bride Organizer book from Borders its AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!
jesstangney Posted:

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I've been using the check lists in Real Simple Wedding... it was an expensive mag ($14) but it has been so helpful!!!!

allinik Posted:

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I think you should look into photographers, DJs and officiants first..

from my experience they seem to get booked quickly.

Then I would look into florists & dresses and stuff.

Just my opinion



Good luck!!

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