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Where's a good rock to crawl under when you need one?

caligirl87 Posted:

Where's a good rock to crawl under when you need one?

I just need to vent about last week, so I can get it off my chest and move on....

MONDAY - Boss calls me in to tell me my vacation a week off in March has been denied. Unfortunately, I only see FH 4 weeks out of the entire year, and that's one of the weeks. Not to mention his birthday that I will be stuck at work for. It's our last time together before our wedding.

TUESDAY: Boss tells me my raise i requested a week and a half ago has been denied because of the economy. Nevermind that I saw 3 $12,000 raises come across my desk the week before (I work in Human Resources).

FH decides to tell me he racked up tons of money on his credit card, and he's been too embarrassed to tell me.

WEDNESDAY: Macy's calls to tell me they never got my credit card payment (darn post office, y can't they mail a simple check?!?)

Get home from work to find out my tags on my car ($300) are due in April when i know I'll be moving to NY the 1st week of June.

Find out that night that my FH's BAH (Basic Housing Allowance for the military) isn't enough to cover rent for the base he's being stationed at when we get married.

THURSDAY: Macy's keeps calling to tell me I need to pay my bill which I paid online on Wednesday since the post office is retarded.

Find out my aunt (which I never met) died and my Dad will be flying out for her funeral which is on his birthday.

FRIDAY: I race to pack my clothes and head out of town to my second job. I get to the hotel and CANNOT sleep because the drunk happy ppl keep slaming doors.

SATURDAY: I get ready at the crack of dawn and head out to the military base to go to work. I am asked for my license, registration, and proof of insurance... no biggy right? Well, I printed out my new proof of insurance and threw away the WRONG ONE! So, they tell me they have to call a unit! I patiently wait for the Military Police, but they don't show up. Apparently, this is the only base where civilian police have jurisdication. Long story short, they give me a warning for the proof of insurance BUT ticket me for having a NY license, saying i'm an unlicensed driver! WHAT?!?! I have a license ... just because it isn't a CA license.. I try to tell him i'm a student and under CA law I don't have to change my license. He tells me because I work in CA I have to change it. (I looked it up, he's wrong!) But it doesn't matter because he gave me a ticket for a MISDEMEANOR, and now I have to take off work for 2 days (one to enter a not guilty plea, and one to get a judgement) and drive 2 hours to go to court. Taking off work costs $$$$. So, I've decided if it's thrown out i'm taking the egomanic officer to small claims. As far as I'm concerned, you better know the law before you even dare write a ticket. In fact, 3 LAPD officers tried to get him to cancel the ticket because they said it wasn't right... and they didn't even know me!


That was my week... I stayed in bed all sunday because, well, I was to afraid to venture out.
donnasmom09 Posted:

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Awwww, Whitney, bless your heart!!!! I'm almost in tears reading all that!!!!! Sweetheart, you have a special place in my prayers tonight!!!!! Much love to you, Mary MOB
caligirl87 Posted:

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Posted by donnasmom09

Awwww, Whitney, bless your heart!!!! I'm almost in tears reading all that!!!!! Sweetheart, you have a special place in my prayers tonight!!!!! Much love to you, Mary MOB



Thank you so much Mary! You are always full of so much love and encouragement for everyone! May the Lord bless you for your pure heart! Thank you for the prayers!!! I wholeheartedly believe in the power of our God!
donnasmom09 Posted:

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Posted by caligirl87


Posted by donnasmom09

Awwww, Whitney, bless your heart!!!! I'm almost in tears reading all that!!!!! Sweetheart, you have a special place in my prayers tonight!!!!! Much love to you, Mary MOB



Thank you so much Mary! You are always full of so much love and encouragement for everyone! May the Lord bless you for your pure heart! Thank you for the prayers!!! I wholeheartedly believe in the power of our God!



Oh, honey, thank you, I appreciate that!!!!! Mary MOB
xosweetiexo Posted:

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Awwwwwwww Im sorry you had a really rough week!!!

I feel like when 1 thing goes wrong.... it just seems to never end! I think Im going to start reading the book 'The Secret' lol I wonder if it actually works- like using positive vibs instead of just thinking of negative things- bc then only negative outcomes will come.

I am already having a rough week and spent the WHOLE DAY in a bad mood!!! Ive been stressing out all day that I have the worst headache..... instead of driving myself crazy- maybe I should just think of tomorrow being a better day lol

I hope you have a better week!!! Things will always get better!!!!
Novia09 Posted:

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I'm sorry you're going through this drama!! Hope things look up for you..
caligirl87 Posted:

Re: Where's a good rock to crawl under when you need one?


Posted by xosweetiexo

Awwwwwwww Im sorry you had a really rough week!!!

I feel like when 1 thing goes wrong.... it just seems to never end! I think Im going to start reading the book 'The Secret' lol I wonder if it actually works- like using positive vibs instead of just thinking of negative things- bc then only negative outcomes will come.

I am already having a rough week and spent the WHOLE DAY in a bad mood!!! Ive been stressing out all day that I have the worst headache..... instead of driving myself crazy- maybe I should just think of tomorrow being a better day lol

I hope you have a better week!!! Things will always get better!!!!



I think when we think about positive things it can change our perception of what's happening in our lives. Maybe we should try this... everyone seems to be having a hard time today/this week so maybe i'll start a thread asking for people to list some positive things.

Also, I truly do hope your week gets better. I hope tonight is a turning point for it!
xosweetiexo Posted:

Re: Where's a good rock to crawl under when you need one?


Posted by caligirl87


Posted by xosweetiexo

Awwwwwwww Im sorry you had a really rough week!!!

I feel like when 1 thing goes wrong.... it just seems to never end! I think Im going to start reading the book 'The Secret' lol I wonder if it actually works- like using positive vibs instead of just thinking of negative things- bc then only negative outcomes will come.

I am already having a rough week and spent the WHOLE DAY in a bad mood!!! Ive been stressing out all day that I have the worst headache..... instead of driving myself crazy- maybe I should just think of tomorrow being a better day lol

I hope you have a better week!!! Things will always get better!!!!



I think when we think about positive things it can change our perception of what's happening in our lives. Maybe we should try this... everyone seems to be having a hard time today/this week so maybe i'll start a thread asking for people to list some positive things.

Also, I truly do hope your week gets better. I hope tonight is a turning point for it!



OMG you are totally right!! I thought that before too WOWWWW so weird!!!! I was in such a bad mood and saw that sooooooooo many ladies on the 09 boards were also having a rough week! A positive attitude thread will def brighten our week!
smrsun Posted:

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I hope this week is better for you!

You don't need a rock, that week is over! Every day is a new day, try to stay positive!
gina409 Posted:

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ohg boy!!!!!! im so sorry..hopefull all the bad stuff has came and went and this week will be better

KPetekie Posted:

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You had an awful week! I feel for you! Bad luck can't keep up forever. I think you've gotten your dose of it. The next few weeks should be much better!

chicky724 Posted:

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Wow, that is a horrible week! I hope this one is better!
MrsJuneB2B Posted:

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ohh! whitney!! i send you what an awful awful week! i'm sorry you have to go through all this! that cop's SUCH a jerk!!!!!! i can't believe that all that happened at once! just try to take one day at a time - if look at it all at once, you'll definitely feel so overwhelmed! i'll think good thoughts for you and definitely FM if you want to vent more!

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