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which invite first

lilmartha59 Posted:

which invite first

im getting married labor day weekend so i wanted to send invites early around june ....my shower is july 19th so invites should go out around june as well
so which one should go out first??
AlisonMZ14 Posted:

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shower invites should prob go out june 1st bc in the summer ppl get invited to a lot of things u want them to rsvp before they get invited to anything else! then id send out wedding invites a couple weeks later

ajlgmm815 Posted:

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martha i debated the same thing i didnt want them crossing in the mail!!

9509Bride Posted:

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OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I am getting married Labor day weekend and my shower is July 19th TOO!!!! We are twins

I am sending my shower invites the first week of June with a June 26th RSVP date ( head count due July 5)

My Wedding Invites are going out the first week of July for an August 5th RSVP date ( head count Due August 22nd)
lilmartha59 Posted:

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Posted by 9509Bride

OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I am getting married Labor day weekend and my shower is July 19th TOO!!!! We are twins

I am sending my shower invites the first week of June with a June 26th RSVP date ( head count due July 5)

My Wedding Invites are going out the first week of July for an August 5th RSVP date ( head count Due August 22nd)



wow thats crazy lol
yay for date twins
julesrbf Posted:

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I just received two shower invites yesterday but have not received the invites yet, so I think it's OK to do the shower ones first if you want ... personally I would prefer the wedding invites first but I don't think it makes much of a difference.

lilmartha59 Posted:

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i was thinking wedding invites first but i guess its not a big deal

AFutureBride Posted:

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i think wedding invites should go first...dont know that it really matters though. I would google it.

debzy Posted:

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Invitations should go out about 8 weeks prior for both your wedding and your shower. Therefore, you shower invites should go out end of May and your wedding invites early July.

I'm getting married Labor Day weekend, too. My invites are going out July 1. Sending your wedding invites in early June seems really early.

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